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Fempet

45 F Encino, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:37am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Rather not say
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am wiser, calmer and more thoughtful with age, more tolerant, except of intolerance. I am generous and giving, quirky and different, sarcastic but considerate, distractible and high energy at times but serious when need be. I miss connecting on all those wonderful levels when you meet a special person. Appreciate positive people...slight self deprecation can be endearing...but be kind to others...always and in all ways. I compliment people and I found this quote and loved it..."The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but reveal to them their own". I think it is less about "who you are" and in actuality, more about, "who I show up as, when I am with you" Being your highest self in a relationship is quite an aphrodisiac. I am a firm believer that the mind is the sexiest part in all of us....and a meeting of minds can be, well, mind blowing!

I crave, miss and want that connection of a man watching over me, protecting me, checking in on me, caring for me, taking care of my needs and me theirs, wanting to know about my vanilla day to day, texts and gifts, toys, and surprises, spoiling me, possessing
me. I am monogamous if you truly are too and that is our decision together, that is what I ultimately would want the most, I prefer that level of intensity with a man. I thrive on the intensity of extreme sensual sensations combined with overwhelming emotion...and how they can meet up together at times for an unbelievable intimate connection. That feeling that there can never be enough but being near sated, is an incredible experience.

In ways I am shy and nervous and fidgety, so I need a patient, kind understanding man, who respects my speed and limits. At other times I am very assertive, playful and strong willed.
Day to day I am your equal but there are times where I will want your guidance and direction and as you get to know me, you will know when those times are. I like to Switch it up....I am looking for that balance/exchange/dynamic with a partner who understands about the play between two people and where it can take us. I believe this can heighten intimacy on many levels for a couple.

I have no time or interest in one night stands. My life is rich and full and I do not "need" a man, but rather, would love to enhance my life with; a dear friend, loyal confidant, giving, passionate, crazed, sexy lover and my safe person.
What I’m doing with my life
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Keeping healthy in all ways and raising very amazing kids, dogs and cats!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, entertaining/throwing parties, solving problems, being a mom, helping those in crisis, sensual experiences, being tactful, resolving conflict, defusing difficult situations, being a mediator.....
The first things people usually notice about me
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my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Indian, Thai, Middle Eastern, Italian, Japanese, Healthy faire. My Life As a Dog, Terminator, American Beauty, Star Trek, Once Were Warriors, The Little Mermaid, Finding Nemo, Toy Story 123. I like thrillers, and good sci-fi. House of Mirth, Confederacy of Dunces, Of Human Bondage, Gorgeous cookbooks, CNN.com, Colbert, Stewart, The Killing, of course Amazon Prime and Netflix!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids, my family, my pets, healthy food, my phone, intimacy...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
that I am not doing what I need to get done...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out to dinner...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a singles ad on okcupid! shhhh!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You love playful banter, a quick and even wicked wit, fun flirting, emotionally intelligent conversation, talking across a table and touching under one. Vanilla at times, definitely not, at others. I like a mind that challenges me to question. Looking for a passionate man, with some calming energy, dominant at the right time and place, healthy lifestyle, goofy at times, maybe intense at others, sexy, kinky, smart as all get out, my safe person. You listen, ask questions, reciprocate, are patient, love food, drink, conversing, the elegant and the gritty, diversity, kids, our planet, people, animals, intimate, wild experiences and life...as do I...Please be aware that I am a widow with younger kids...ie very single parent....and if this is an issue for you, it is an issue for me. Be well.