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21 / M / Straight / Single
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 3:42pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- Strictly anything
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Working on university
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay)
- a keyboard instrument
- orange juice
- my glasses
- an irrepressible spirit of rebellion
okay on the stale/steal thing there are people answering the one beginning with 9 and I want to know how that's happening
Also the people who say nuclear war wouldn't be exciting—I just imagine them watching everything be obliterated and the very fabric of society collapse and rapidly reorganized, and saying "booorrring when we gonna see sum action?!" I know that's not what they mean and it's just because everybody has this chronic inability to answer the question asked as it's meant, and they're just saying nuclear war would be bad because they can't tell the difference between "exciting" and "fun and great," but I still like to laugh at them for being obtuse.
I also don't think it's unintentional.
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 18–25
- Near me
- Who are single
- For short-term dating
Just do it.
Break the mold.
However, I have a lot of friends. A great collection. Message me and all and I'll respond, but I'm not really accepting undisclaimed applications from people I don't have at least a 15% chance of extracurricular activities with at some point. If there is no possibility of anything beyond the platonic activities I currently enjoy with my friends, you might want to let me know. This is not to discourage you from contacting me. Some people use OKC to actively find pure just friends. I do not.
I'm in the position of being expected to actively take risks and expose myself to emotional wear-and-tear without showing that vulnerability. It's a position I don't particularly like and in describing it here I'm further exposing myself. If that turns you off sharply, that's fine, but realize that's making you part and evidence of this self-reinforcing problem. You might not experience this particular set of expectations—OKC's statistics suggest so much—, so just realize this is the experience for a portion of the population and perhaps keep it in mind. This has grated on me and makes it difficult to keep trying at it. This is more than I should have said.
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