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42 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:38pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Dropped out of Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English, French (Somewhat), Croatian (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do. it has come down to creating an online personal ad. I'm not against meeting people online (and have before), but I'm not the type that likes talking about myself. But what I dislike even more is having to do it over and over again. And even though I'm selective about which ads I respond to, it's better to do the initial presentation once and be done with it. So here we go.

I'm an engineer and all that goes with it...somewhat nerdy, level-headed, open-minded, and a bit of a wacky sense of humor that usually involves some kind of punnery, word play or making odd connections.

I'm not the bar, party, wild and crazy type and never have been. I can be entertained by having an interesting conversation on a random topic, watching and indie/foreign movie, or sitting in the sun and reading a book or listening to music.

I enjoy physical activities, ranging from playing ice hockey, riding my bike, yoga, or long walks (I'd love to spend more time walking around SF).

I haven't travelled much (other than having lived in several places in the US), but Hawaii, Sydney, London, Amsterdam, Portland, and San Diego are all on the short list of places I'd like to visit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working too much and looking to change that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- listening

- listening until just the right opportunity to make a smart ass comment.

- trivia

- either procrastinating or having total focus depending on the task
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, it could be a variety of things including hair, eyes, lips. Personality-wise, usually that I'm quiet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: anything by Guy Gavriel Kay, Neal Stephenson and David Sedaris. Recently read The Fountainhead. Currently reading Guns, Germs and Steel.

Movies: The Professional, Rushmore, Memento, Unbreakable, The Princess and the Warrior, Office Space, Fight Club, Before Sunrise/Sunset, Matrix, American Beauty, Sin City, most Tarantino, Kevin Smith, Guy Ritchie and John Hughes. Indie/foreign films in general.

Music: Alice in Chains, Faith No More, Poe, Danzig/Misfits, Pantera, Dresden Dolls, Garbage, Weezer, Alkaline Trio, Living End
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The illusory nature of free will. But then again, I have to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My secret desire is to live in a house in the woods, next to a lake or river with otters. Why? Because otters, that's why.
You should message me if
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you have a mischievous smile and a sparkle in your eye.