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CandidCandi

63 / F / straight / Single

Chesterfield, Virginia

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So, this guy joins OKC last night and finds me within "minutes". He sends me a message and wants me to go to Yahoo to "chat" and he would send me a picture there. So, I did. While we are chatting, the dreaded "Virus detected" thing pops up and scares the s**t out of me! (So much for Yahoo mail!)

So, we get offline after making a "date" to meet back on Yahoo this afternoon. The more I thought about it, the more I did not want to "chat" with him. I messged him on OKC and broke the "date", telling him I was not in a rush to chat, use the phone, or anything else. Hoped he understood.

So, I'm checking for a response to my message and he is ABSOLUTELY GONE from OKC! I not only blew him off, I blew him out of the website (but I suspect he'll be lurking under a new name). I am just wondering what is so sick about me that I am finding GREAT PLEASURE in all of this! Believe me, I am not a game player . . . . . but I was really getting creeped out by how quickly this guy was moving (and he's 66!).

So . . . . . . gosh I'm having fun here! This is my first post, so forgive my imperfection . . . .

 

So, this guy joins OKC last night and finds me within "minutes".He sends me a message and wants me to go to Yahoo to "chat" and hewould send me a picture there. So, I did. While we are chatting,the dreaded "Virus detected" thing pops up and scares the s**t outof me! (So much for Yahoo mail!)

So, we get offline after making a "date" to meet back on Yahoothis afternoon. The more I thought about it, the more I did notwant to "chat" with him. I messged him on OKC and brokethe "date", telling him I was not in a rush to chat, use the phone,or anything else. Hoped he understood.

So, I'm checking for a response to my message and he isABSOLUTELY GONE from OKC! I not only blew him off, I blew him outof the website (but I suspect he'll be lurking under anew name). I am just wondering what is so sick about me that Iam finding GREAT PLEASURE in all of this! Believe me, I am not agame player . . . . . but I was really getting creeped out by howquickly this guy was moving (and he's 66!).

So . . . . . . gosh I'm having fun here! This is my first post,so forgive my imperfection . . . .

 

Lookin' for 75% ~ Big Deal!
An image of seismologist He sounds like a scammer and most likely his profile was flagged and deleted. This happens all the time.

seismologist commented on

Default user image DO NOT ever engage in IM's no matter what the venue! An IM exchange is a dangerous internet security risk to your pc. OKC is sometimes non-responsive when you turn off the IM contact information. Do not answer an IM if it pops up on your screen. Consider adding an IM disclaimer to your profile. Serious respondents will comprehend by sending an e-mail. In the meantime, you will find this place fun. Just be careful.

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