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47 Anthony, NM Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 20
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
English, Spanish
My self-summary
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The more time I spend on this earth the more I realize that the people in my life are what really matter.

I find myself settling into my relatively new life in New Mexico again and find that the simplest things are what now make me happy. A day hike in the mountains, a trip to the farmers market, a bike ride to the park for a picnic and getting caught in a delightful, unexpected summer rainstorm.

I'm much less interested in racing around chasing after every new adventure. "Living my life with intention" is what inspires me now.

I'm looking for a romantic partner who knows himself, understands his own vulnerabilities and is at the same time confident in his strengths. People who inspire me are willing to look at life with compassionate fearlessness in spite of their own fallibility.

I am contemplative, curious, and vibrant
What I’m doing with my life
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I used to be in the environmental field but have decided to go back to school to become a psychotherapist. The more I've gotten to know myself, the more I want to help others do the same.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Being a good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm always being told that I have a diplomatic and calm nature. I take that as a complement :-) I but don't let those qualities obscure my audacious side as well!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Shaman's Apprentice, A Saint on Death Row
Music: nearly all "World" music
Food: anything Thai or Indian
Movies:sometimes foreign films, other times something lighter (but always well done)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
my friends
my spiritual path
a pet to lie at my feet (I currently have a feline)
being outdoors
the sun on my face as I sit by a stream with my eyes closed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people connect and "are present" for each other
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
-having a glass of wine with a friend at a local wine bar
You should message me if
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You'd like to get together and have a real conversation