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36 • Ottawa, Ontario, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 6
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- When drinking
- Other, and laughing about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
My Dad died this year in January and one message I got out of it was that if I wanted my dreams to happen I must take charge of them. That said I uprooted my home in Vancouver with a suitcase and carry-on boarded the Greyhound and moved to Ottawa. I arrived today. Anyone want to show me around?
Fact of the matter is there are just way more opportunities in this city for performance, and I am finally taking myself seriously.
I live a pretty minimalist lifestyle, by choice as well as necessity. All my worldly possessions could and have fit in the small backseat of a car or recently a bus. I think it's safe to say that at this point I am a true born-to-be artist, and after 15 years of trying to make it in the 9-5 world I realized definitively it doesn't sustain me, and that my work, my words, my performances, publications will not only be my career, but my lifepath, as long as I am here to walk it.
Asking probing, and uncomfortable questions. I find people fascinating, and I want to know as much about what makes them wonderful and unique as possible. This adds a very intense and sincere quality to my personality. TMI...is a concept which I am just now fully starting to appreciate.
Telling you exactly what I think whether you want to hear it or not. I believe as a friend, or in a relationship that more harm is done by telling others what they want to hear. I think it is a true sign of friendship when you can share difficult truths with each other, and indeed it is something I require from the people in my life, otherwise they don't stay in my life very long.
People also tell me...I have gorgeous eyes. On the rare occasions I take these glasses off that is.
I also adore the classics such as: Mark Twain's A Connecticut Yankee In King Arthur's Court, The Canterbury Tales, Beouwulf, Ivanhoe...the Iliad. I am also a big fan of Dickens and Steinbeck. There is almost nothing I will not carnivorously consume from the trashy to the terrific.
So many great movies I love. Delicatessen, Amelie, The Boy Who Could Fly, Dirty Pretty Things, Sin City, The Chronicles of Narnia, The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe and Prince Caspian. The Harry Potter Movies, 300, The Dark Knight, The Original Spiderman movie, The Incredible Hulk, The Truman Show, Ace Ventura Pet Detective, Seven Years in Tibet, and so many more I can't think of right now. Knocked Up, Super Bad, The 40 year old Virgin, Pineapple Express, Zach and Miri Make a Porno. Brain Damage...this last is a psychotically awesome mind fuck of a horror film. Speaking of mind fucks...Titus was also spectacular. Fight Club, Twelve Monkeys...Primal Fear...All the Nightmare on Elm Street Movies...The last Unicorn. Star Wars Movies...could go on for days. Right now...I am bubbling over about a tiny independent British Movie I can't wait to see called Submarine. I love movies in general, and many of the best ones never play major theatres frankly. Don't get me started.
I also love all types of music, with a special fondness for Celtic and folk music, jazz riffs, as well as the unusual and alternative.
Love all foods...except for tofu...horseradish...uncooked onions...I suggest however, if you have never tried a pupusa before you must do this...there is a Great Salvadorean Restaurant on Commercial Drive which makes amazing ones.
You are openminded and creative.
You are non-judgemental.
You are loyal and caring.
You are an intelligent, thoughtful human being.
You are an individual (meaning you think for yourself, you embrace your own quirks, and are willing to be genuine)
If you are not perfect...and you don't try to be, or pretend to be, or expect me to be.
If you are a bit of an eccentric...
You are sick of skin deep friendships and relationships...and are interested in developing a connection (friendship or otherwise) that is long lasting and meaningful).
You are not afraid to laugh at yourself, or at me
You appreciate simple things.
You are looking for ways to improve yourself, and likeminded people to grow with.
If you are interested or intrigued in any way...
If you haven't given my profile the middle finger and moved on by this point.
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