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Cantab80

52 Long Beach, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I told my friends I wanted to get back into the dating scene and meet a nice woman. They all suggested that I try CraigsList, as most of them had met a number of "girlfriends" there. (They're not very good friends, as you've probably already guessed.) So I gave it a try, and let's just say ... I'm sure some of the people there are good deep down -- and when I say "deep down," we're talking Earth's core deep here -- but I want to do more than just date in my car for an hour or so at a time. I mean, my car is nice and everything, but it just seems so limiting. And I'm not cool with risking my life or catching some horrible disease just to meet a woman. So I've decided to give OkCupid a try instead. First impressions? I'm sure there are some good people here ...

Okay, in all seriousness, I'm a good guy with a good education and a good job, and a better than average sense of humor. I would love to meet a good woman I just "click" with to enjoy all that life has to offer. I love to learn and try new things. I have two teenagers who are with me every other week. I love photography, sports, movies, books, and music. And I'm honest. Sometimes to a fault.

If you see anything you like, say "hi!." If I see anything I like, I'll do the same. All I ask is that you not waste my time. I'm here to meet someone -- for real -- and I hope you are too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to squeeze every last delicious drop out of it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh -- I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor and can be a bit raunchy at times. I'm also a really good listener and probably should have been a psychologist so at least I'd get paid for it. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes? I've had a number of people tell me I look like various celebrities, including Dan Aykroyd, Tim Robbins, and Philip Seymour Hoffman (RIP). When I was a pre-teen, someone told me I looked like Glen Campbell! Go figure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So many -- for movies, I love the classics, such as "Casablanca," "The Maltese Falcon," "Sunset Boulevard," "Lawrence of Arabia," "North by Northwest," and many more. More recently, I love "The Shawshank Redemption," "Sideways," "Breaking Away," "Swingers" anything by the Coen brothers, "The Station Agent," "Sneakers" (that's a lot of "S" movies, I just noticed), and "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty." The "Before Sunrise" and "Before Sunset" movies are the most romantic movies I've ever seen. There are so many more, but I can't think of them now. I love all the books written by Richard Ford, "For Whom the Bell Tolls," "A Prayer for Owen Meany," "The Count of Monte Cristo" and countless others. My favorite food is probably Mexican, but I love all kinds, except for seafood. I'll eat some fish, but it's not my favorite.

For TV, I loved Breaking Bad and Ricky Gervais' "Derek." I also love sports, especially college football.

Music is huge to me. It touches my soul like nothing else. I'm not religious, but if there's a God, I think I've heard Him in certain music. I love the guitar -- acoustic and electric -- and tend to love music that features amazing guitar playing. Current favorites include The Avett Brothers, Joe Bonamassa, the Black Keys (awesome band!), Eric Clapton, Dire Straits, Allen Stone, Joe Walsh, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Pat Metheny, Tom Petty ... I could go on for days. I like all kinds of music, even some bluegrass and country.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mobile phone (sadly) ; my camera; pen/paper; a radio; a nice sidecar (cocktail, not the motorcycle attachment); and my kids.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If the universe is expanding, then what the hell is it expanding into? And why is it the US can't figure out how to get single-payer, universal health care done? (Actually, I know the reason -- greed. Smh.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't do typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm the guy behind the guy, behind the guy. (Extra points if you get the reference.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're fun, curious, and open to new experiences, I'd love to hear from you.