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52 Long Beach, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:05pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Born in the Bay Area, raised and educated in the northeast (Boston mostly). I'm a work in progress, and proud of it. What I mean is, I'm always trying to learn and try new things, and although I consider myself to be pretty great already, I know I can be even better. So can you, whoever you are. All that's required is curiosity, a willingness to admit that you don't know everything, a positive attitude, and an open heart and mind. There are so many wonderful things to see and explore in this beautiful world, and this is the only life we get. Care to join me on my journey? If so, say hello! I don't bite (unless you want me to).

Oh, and if you're here to play games, or haven't learned how to treat people with common courtesy and honesty, please just move along; I've got no time for your kind, sister.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to squeeze every last delicious drop out of it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh -- I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor and can be a bit raunchy at times. I'm also a really good listener and probably should have been a psychologist so at least I'd get paid for it. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes? I've had a number of people tell me I look like various celebrities, including Dan Aykroyd, Tim Robbins, and Philip Seymour Hoffman (RIP). When I was a pre-teen, someone told me I looked like Glen Campbell! Go figure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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So many -- for movies, I love the classics, such as "Casablanca," "The Maltese Falcon," "Sunset Boulevard," "Lawrence of Arabia," "North by Northwest," and many more. More recently, I love "The Shawshank Redemption," "Sideways," "Breaking Away," "Swingers" anything by the Coen brothers, "Sneakers" (hat's a lot of "S" movies, I just noticed), and "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty." The "Before Sunrise" and "Before Sunset" movies are the most romantic movies I've ever seen. There are so many more, but I can't think of them now. I love all the books written by Richard Ford, "For Whom the Bell Tolls," "A Prayer for Owen Meany," "The Count of Monte Cristo" and countless others. My favorite food is probably Mexican, but I love all kinds, except for seafood. I'll eat some fish, but it's not my favorite.

For TV, I loved Breaking Bad and Ricky Gervais' "Derek." I also love sports, especially college football.

Music is huge to me. It touches my soul like nothing else. I'm not religious, but if there's a God, I think I've heard Him in certain music. I love the guitar -- acoustic and electric -- and tend to love music that features amazing guitar playing. Current favorites include The Avett Brothers, Joe Bonamassa, the Black Keys (awesome band!), Eric Clapton, Dire Straits, Allen Stone, Joe Walsh, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Pat Metheny, Tom Petty ... I could go on for days. I like all kinds of music, even some bluegrass and country.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mobile phone (sadly) ; my camera; pen/paper; a radio; a nice sidecar (cocktail, not the motorcycle attachment); and my kids.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If the universe is expanding, then what the hell is it expanding into? And why is it the US can't figure out how to get single-payer, universal health care done? (Actually, I know the reason -- greed. Smh.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm the guy behind the guy, behind the guy. (Extra points if you get the reference.)
You should message me if
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You're heart-broken that George Clooney is married now and are looking for the next best thing! 😃

Actually, if you're fun, curious, and open to new experiences, I'd love to hear from you. And if you're a fan of Fox News or the GOP, we are not a match.