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Cantab80

51 M Long Beach, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm an educated man with a good job, a car, a sometimes inappropriate sense of humor, a thirst to learn and try new things, an eclectic style, a full head of thick hair, all my teeth, and most of my marbles, although the longer I'm on this site the sooner they'll be gone. I say what I mean and mean what I say, and I expect the same from a partner. I generally treat people how I want to be treated ... unless they start something with me first, in which case I am more than willing and able to respond in kind. I'm a positive person and believe the best is yet to come. I'm relatively handy with tools, can cook and bake, and used to know how to knit. I can still sew a button when necessary. I have two kids I love more than anything and have custody of them every other week. I was born in the Bay Area, but grew up in the Boston area, with a few stops in between. My life is great, but I want someone (a woman) to share it with. Ideally, I would meet an amazing woman in the real (I.e. offline) world, but with work, kids, and other commitments, that's not so easy, which explains why I'm here -- on this ridiculous site.

So, what am I looking for in a woman? She should be attractive, in reasonably good shape, educated, employed, with a well-developed, sometimes naughty sense of humor. She should be positive, be open to new experiences, be kind, fun, and funny. She should agree with and live by the maxim that actions are more meaningful than words -- not that words aren't important, too. A love of music wouldn't hurt. I'm not religious, but it's okay if she is, so long as she isn't a fanatic about it. Prudes, flakes, right wing conservatives, and fans of Fox News, Ann Coulter, etc. need not apply. Then again, Mary Matalin and James Carville appear to be happily married, so I guess anything is possible. She should also be serious about finding a partner. There are too many women on here who seem to be looking for an ego stroke or just want to play games. (I'm sure this applies to many of the men on here as well.) I don't have time for such foolishness.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work to live and look to fill my free time with as much fun as possible. Fun, for me, includes going out and staying in, depending on my mood. I'm always looking for ways to improve myself and that includes exercise, yoga, learning to play guitar, reading, writing and anything else that might interest me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening in a non-judgmental way. Making people laugh -- I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor and can be a bit raunchy at times. I have a filter, though, and don't usually embarrass myself or people I'm with.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes? I've had a number of people tell me I look like various celebrities, including Dan Aykroyd, Tim Robbins, and Philip Seymour Hoffman (RIP). When I was a pre-teen, someone told me I looked like Glen Campbell! Go figure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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So many -- for movies, I love the classics, such as "Casablanca," "The Maltese Falcon," "Sunset Boulevard," "Lawrence of Arabia," "North by Northwest," and many more. More recently, I love "The Shawshank Redemption," "Sideways," "Breaking Away," "Swingers" anything by the Coen brothers, and "Sneakers." (That's a lot of "S" movies, I just noticed.) The "Before Sunrise" and "Before Sunset" movies are the most romantic movies I've ever seen. There are so many more, but I can't think of them now. I love all the books written by Richard Ford, "For Whom the Bell Tolls," "A Prayer for Owen Meany," "The Count of Monte Cristo" and countless others. My favorite food is probably Mexican, but I love all kinds, except for seafood. I'll eat some fish, but it's not my favorite.

For TV, I loved Breaking Bad and Ricky Gervais' "Derek." I also love sports, especially college football.

Music is huge to me. It touches my soul like nothing else. I'm not religious, but if there's a God, I think I've heard Him in certain music. I love the guitar -- acoustic and electric -- and tend to love music that features amazing guitar playing. Current favorites include The Avett Brothers, Joe Bonamassa, the Black Keys (awesome band!), Eric Clapton, Dire Straits, Allen Stone, Joe Walsh, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Pat Metheny, Tom Petty ... I could go on for days. I like all kinds of music, even some bluegrass and country.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cell phone; a guitar; pen/paper; Turner Classic Movies; my radio; and a nice sidecar (cocktail, not the motorcycle attachment).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If the universe is expanding, then what the hell is it expanding into? And why is it the US can't figure out how to get single-payer, universal health care done? (Actually, I know the reason -- greed. Smh.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm the guy behind the guy, behind the guy. (Extra points if you get the reference.)
You should message me if
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You like or are intrigued by anything you read or see in my profile and honestly think we might be a match. And please, if you're here for games, don't waste my time.