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41 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 24
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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A down to earth native New Yorker with some strong opinions. Can be quite romantic and affectionate. Well traveled and well read. I enjoy the arts and sports and taking care of my body and health.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running and biking shirtless in summer--feels so good.
Being present.
Making emotional space in my life for my future boyfriend.
Building a real estate business.
Enjoying the social life I've built in this city.
Working with homeless LGBTQ youth.
Diving into the arts and culture scene.
Swimmer, skier biker, runner, weights, some Soccer and Yoga.
Considering my first triathlon or playing Volleyball or Basketball.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being non-judgmental. Staying curious.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My openness ...and the way I look at you when I feel a connection. I've been told I smell pretty damn good too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Brian DePalma, Eyes of Laura Mars, Cruising, because I will watch a bad film if the set design, wardrobe, and sound track are amazing. I definitely like horror and documentaries too.
Used to be dense 19th century Russian novels. Now, been leaning more toward Edmund White.
Julia Child; Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman
Giorgio Moroder/Donna Summer, Dolly Parton, Judy Collins (when I need to cry)
Peanut butter, Crab Rangoon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Toast with butter, peanut butter, laughter, film, sports, and men who turn me on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How our world could be a more joyous, caring, fulfulling place.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'd like to be out with my boyfriend or cooking and cuddling with him. On the other hand, I might be out with friends or on a date or home hibernating with a movie, a book, and a jar of peanut butter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I eat with my hands.
You should message me if
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You are fairly confident and take good care of your body.
You are emotionally available and can make time to date and love someone or something outside of your job.
You enjoy the arts or can share whatever does move you.
Maybe you have or enjoy a darker sense of humor.

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