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52 F Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently), Urdu (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Like most, I've learned, seen, and experienced quite a lot so far....

I've been very fortunate to have lived, worked and traveled overseas (Europe, Asia, Australia/NZ and parts of Africa and Latin America) most of my life and have a worldly outlook. I've been settled in DC for a few years now and enjoying it.

My good friends describe me as a friendly, happy, worldly, grounded, thoughtful, open minded, easy going, spontaneous,, affectionate, curious, social, unpretentious, often witty, creative,, playful ... person who values timeless values of honesty, integrity, compassion; loyalty, long friendships, good conversations and a healthy dose of laughter.
YOLO .. So live it with gusto! Has been my motto.

Enjoy city living and the rugged outdoors. ...I'm comfortable in most settings ... From the Outback / bush to the city.. talking to s homeless person or s CEO .. Black dress to boots and jeans
And can be ready to go in 5 ..mins :) .

I enjoy exploring new places, adventures, travel, the arts and music scene, hiking/camping, cycling, sailing, gardening, fixing things, cooking, socializing, staying healthy and balanced, trying new activities.

I'm very much a people person and enjoy the company of worldly, easy going, witty, fun, spontaneous, grounded, people. Also enjoy blazing campfires, sunrises over the oceans and mountain tops, hiking in the alps/mountains, rainy day museum trips, most ethnic foods, live music esp indie bands, dancing, theater, ideas and imagination and a pint of dry hard cider .. Quite comfortable spending an occasional afternoon watching a live sports event. Go Nats!!

I do like to just chill sometimes, curled up with a book listening to music, or hanging out with friends cooking, having meaningful conversations and laughs....

On a personal note about relationships ... Sure opposites attract, but most relationships have common ground when it comes to the important traits like honesty, trust, loyalty, sense of humor, thoughtfulness etc. because those are the things we generally want from each other. Opening up and truly being those things that you want to be and want to have takes vulnerability; it takes moving away from the safety of cynicism and control and tapping into a more exposed “you.”

Many people feel deep down that for some reason or another they don’t deserve happiness ( I'm not one of them) and so they shut people out and surround themselves with unfulfilling events and people. We all deserve happiness, it’s okay to have it and give it to others.

Are you still with me ... Then do feel free to contact me, especially if you are a fun, grounded, happy, content person with integrity and strong relationships .. I'm not perfect nor am I looking for Perfect .. We all have had our mess ups .. And have survived so far. ...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living life with gusto .. .. Learning, discovering, maturing and enjoying the experience. New phase .. Both exciting and a bit scary!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going with the flow.. Being a good friend, Communicating, talking, laughing , helping others, following through on plans.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No idea .. Perhaps .. engaging, have a positive out look on life, genuine, approachable.., grounded !!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books.... a variety of topics spy / adventure novels and books about making life and the world a better place, biographies, deep Spiritual stuff ..

Movies....Foreign, action/ espionage, comedy, indie, adventure..,enjoy travel shows like Long way Down ( Europe to Africa in motor cycles ).

NPR, BBC, Frontline, Nova, Dan Rather reports. AL J, BBC drama, SNL... Honestly I don't watch too much TV prefer radio and talking to people.

Music... Listen to a variety of music, depends on the mood. Favorites include..... Talking heads, Red hot chilli peppers, Sting, Lou reed, Dirty Heads, Blind Pilot, Adele, Janis Joplin, Frank Sinatra, Pink Martini, Bosa Nova... Honestly Most genres of music ( in various languages too .. Got a decent Putomayo collection) ..enjoy going to live concerts esp indi bands..and love dancing!

Most types of cuisine as long as it's fresh (vs processed or FF) ethnic foods my fav... Im not too fussy, but do prefer clean eating... love a good hole in the wall or pub too....if the foods fresh and the company is good Im happy ....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nature...Air.. Water, mountains, changing seasons
the freedom to travel
good music/books
Good friendships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life in general .. Figuring out my next phase ...New ventures, world peace, cleaner planet, .Geopolitics, Inventions, home projects, family, the environment, next trip .. Curious, creative enquiring mind
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on the week. ... Out with friends.. dinner, a show, live music, or absolutely nothing... prefer staying spontaneous
You should message me if
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You find something interesting ... have shared interests ... And are interested in meeting for a chat over a coffee/ drink.

Ps ..I'm not into endless emailing, texting ....I'd rather meet you and see where it takes us ...if u are uncomfortable meeting up then pls don't waste either of our time. :-)