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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–47
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:46am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
For a professional writer, I have to say this part doesn't come naturally to me. But anyway, I'm a reporter and successful author who was raised in Britain and Ireland but has lived in the United States his entire adult life. I've a masters degree in international relations and have enjoyed traveling widely for both work and pleasure. (Some of my favorite places to have visited: Vietnam, Buenos Aires, Egypt, Jordan.) I've been shot at, but never shot at anyone else, and have met with two men who are now on the United States' most wanted list.

I'm an active person, but not obsessively so. I played rugby for 25 years and go the gym two to four times a week to stay in shape, but I am very happy to just lounge on the sofa reading a good book, magazine article or the Sunday paper. (I prefer reading to watching television 90 percent of the time.) These days my relationships with team sports is one of supporter (Leeds United Football Club) rather than participant. I'm comfortable in my own skin and spending time alone, but I'm also a fairly social animal - I enjoy the company of others and am happy relaxing with friends at parties, rooftop bars or in one of the scores of good restaurants this city has to offer.

I'm close to my family and am a doting uncle to my young niece and nephew.

The basics you might be wondering about: I'm drug and disease free. I've never been married and have no children, but am ready to change both those conditions if I meet the right person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to make a difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding things out.
Hard rock trivia from the Seventies and Eighties.
(Unfortunately, only one of the above pays the bills.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm, you'd have to ask "people," I think. But I suspect my English accent (now somewhat warped into a mid-Atlantic twang).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I have many hundreds (thousands?) of books (acquired a variety of ways, many through work), most of which I have yet to read. I read a lot of non-fiction these days (I've just finished "The Triple Agent" by Joby Warrick, now reading "Counterstrike" by Eric Schmitt and Thom Shanker), but fiction that has made an impression over the years includes work by Tolkien, Ayn Rand, Hemingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald and Shakespeare. Other favorite works include "Starship Troopers by Heinlein, "Gates of Fire" by Steven Pressfield, "Out Stealing Horses" by Per Petterson and "The Road" by Cormac McCarthy.

Movies: I love movies and am delighted with the existence of E Street Cinema. My movie tastes run the gamut from drama to sci-fi to comedies. Favorites include: Apocalypse Now, Diva, Star Wars, Casablanca, Dr. Strangelove, This is Spinal Tap, Swingers, Old School and The Usual Suspects.

Shows: I hardly watch any TV, other than the occasional soccer game. But I've recently become a convert to "Game of Thrones" and I also enjoyed HBO's "Rome" series enough to buy a bootleg box set of the DVDs in Baghdad.

Music: I got my start writing about rock music and I even spent a summer working for a rock band management company. These days I can enjoy a fairly wide variety of music, but my tastes are still centered around what I enjoyed as a teenager: classic hard rock like Zeppelin, Rush, Thin Lizzy, Scorpions and UFO. But if that's not your thing, don't worry. Spending time with me doesn't necessitate being bombarded with wailing guitar solos. As I write this it's a Sunday morning and I've been listening to "Look Sharp" by Joe Jackson and "Everything Must Go" by Steely Dan.

Food: I love to eat out and can enjoy just about any cuisine. I also tend to stick to a fairly healthy diet whenever possible.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(I'm presuming that food, water and breathable air are assumed here, so with that in mind...)
Friends/good company
A fast Internet connection
Something interesting to read
The sense of possibility.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Missed opportunities; maximizing the time left to me on the planet; how to structure my next book; what the Leeds United back four should be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends in a lively bar or good restaurant, taking in a movie at E Street Cinema, or relaxing at home with a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You might have to ply with me with good Scotch to get me to admit to anything.
You should message me if
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...after reading the above (or my answers to the "two of us" questions) you feel intrigued. I look forward to hearing from you. Cheers!