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47 Lakeside, South Africa Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 1
5' 9" (1.76m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
High school
Has kids and might want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking for love, laughter and happiness... in no particular order.

Like most people, I strive to be a good (and better) person every day. The one upside of being relatively old is that I've grown more comfortable in my own skin as time passes. I've learned what makes me tick and what doesn't, and that's led to me approaching a new chapter in my life with relish, energy and optimism.

Some snippets about me:

I am all of these things: father, non-smoker, nerdily geekish, liberal, atheist, music lover, trivia boffin, manic street tweeter, grammar nazi, huge payer of attention to detail, runner, non-aspiring private non-stand-up-comic, lover of comedy and humour, and all-round decent bloke who's in search of an extra boost of positive energy from someone special.
What I’m doing with my life
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Busy with a mental reboot of my life. Clearing out negative clutter and focusing on positivity and happiness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a bit of a brainbox, and have a sharp sense of humour.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Heyyy... he looks a lot like those photos of him!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Science. Music: Alternative, electronic, rock. TV shows: Comedies. Food: I eat most things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Technology. Laughter. Coolness. Bacon. Mushrooms. Coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
One thing, then another thing, then another, then ooh shiny! #notsofocused
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking it easy after my traditional Friday evening run.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once got caught sleeping at my desk at work, and pretended I had meningitis.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like to think and laugh - sometimes simultaneously.