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44 M Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 18
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Very often
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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We are a long term couple living in and LOVING Washington DC. We're entrepreneurs in our professional lives, we love, love, love spending time with our great group of friends and... yes, we're open to the idea of expanding our lives in a Triad relationship. There really is a lot more to us than just our "polyamorous" lifestyle. (First off, "polyamorous", BLECH, what an UN-attractive word for it.) Nevertheless, you've no doubt noticed two guys in our profile picture and that tends to make this topic the 800 lb. gorilla in the room... so, let's talk about it. No, we're not mormons and we're not addicted to the show Sister Wives I promise! ;-) The label polyamorous is really broad and not all of the traditional definitions apply to us so we figured it might help if we try to give you a better idea how we got to this place and what we think we're open to.

First off, this "ain't our first time at the rodeo..." We sort of stumbled into our first (and only) Triad experience awhile ago. It wasn't planned, it just happened. It was VERY exciting, unfortunately we had no role models and since it wasn't planned we had absolutely NO IDEA what we were doing. Naturally we made some mistakes along the way. Eventually it fizzled after 10 months, but it was absolutely great while it lasted! The most important thing is that we all three of us learned a lot and remain friends to this day.

After some time has gone by, we've both done a lot more reading and we agree that we both like the 'lifestyle of abundance'. We just had the wrong guy the first time (no offense to him if he's reading this). So we're ready to give it a go again IF the right guy comes along. Who's the right guy? Well, we want to remain open to all possibilities but we feel that we're looking for someone for an exclusive relationship where all three of us live together. Physical attraction is crucial but we're definitely looking for a lot more than a hook-up or casual sex. Honestly, there's only so much we can put into a profile so drop us a line, say hello and let's grab a drink sometime. Face-to-face conversation is SO much better than endless texts.
What I’m doing with my life
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We are self employed, successful career oriented guys. With a huge focus to our friends and family. Filling our lives with a great work hard and play hard balance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Passion. We pour our hearts and souls into virtually everything we do, from work to entertaining. And we LOVE to entertain! We often refer to our great group of friends as our "chosen family", because they're that important in our lives.
The first things people usually notice about me
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We're very unique. We're more trendsetters than we are trend followers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Playing Business
Planning time/events with friends
Hobbies- cars, bees, plants, cooking, home improvement
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the beach house
Out with friends
You should message me if
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In short, physical attraction is important in our next partner. I hate to admit it, but without physical attraction we probably won't go far. We're also very attracted to guys who are passionate about what they do (work and/or hobbies - hopefully both). We have a pretty active social life so the perfect partner will not only be able keep up but also interact well, socially with our friends and introduce us to theirs. Beyond that... hobbies and interests that go with ours (exercise, good food, traveling, etc.) is important to us as well and hopefully we'll discover new hobbies and interests with the right guy. Last but certainly not least... sexually the perfect partner will be GREAT in the sack! Adventurous but not too extreme and I think versatility would be key.

We hope to hear from you soon. Written messages are cool, but nothing replaces good ol' fashioned face-to-face communication. After the initial "hello", let's try to get off this site and go grab a beer or cup of coffee in 'real life'.