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71 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a sensitive, sensual, adventurous, highly evolved geek. Over-educated, multi-faceted.
What I’m doing with my life
Stretching it out, trying always to expand. Figuring how best to enjoy applying my special skills productively, while taking pleasure in always learning more. Reconciling my innate optimism with past tragedies.
I’m really good at
Learning new things. Explaining stuff that I know about. Telling what's in my heart and hearing you tell yours. Hooking up electronics and general handyman skills. My job in science. Crossword puzzles. Speaking French. Celestial navigation. Kissing, making love.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look like Jerry Garcia. At least, that came up all the time from our 20's through the time of his death and for some years thereafter, less and less nowadays as the public memory of him fades, but it still does come up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll start with the music, because it's most important and it's where tastes are most enduring: Johann Sebastian Bach, Chet Baker, Mozart, Stan Getz, Scarlatti, Coleman Hawkins, Prokofiev, young Louis Armstrong, Stan Kenton, Leonard Cohen, Stefon Harris, Paul Desmond, Bill Evans.....eclectically jazzy and favoring the baroque. I'm enormously pleased by the opening of the new SF Jazz Center, where I'm a member.

Movies -- Oh there are SO many. Recently, Quartet and The Last Quartet. Usually, but not always, the Woody Allen film of the year.

Books -- ditto. Non-fiction: "High Tide in Tuscon" by Kingsolver, "Mortality" by Hitchens. Recent fiction: Ian McCuen, Julian Barnes, George Saunders.

Cable TV: Past: Sex and the City, Six Feet Under, The Sopranos. Current: Homeland, Breaking Bad, Masters of Sex

Food: Almost anything, prepared with love and intention. Exceptions: I don't like tofu or avocados.
The six things I could never do without
Aside from the necessities of life common to us all--air, water, etc--what come first to mind:a bicycle, music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The awesome mystery of existence. Why is there something rather than nothing?
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays are never typical. It all depends on what's going on, with whom I've been hanging. End of the work week, might be a good date night if I had a date. Otherwise, might be a good night to stay in, unwind from job, do laundry with the Giant's game on the TV
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 58–75
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you share something of my vision of a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship, which centers on companionship for a large part of our common leisure time, hanging out, fixing a meal together and curling up on the couch for a video, entertaining friends, going out for live music, movies, theater, adventure outings, road trips, weekend getaways, planning longer vacations together, watching each other's back, and if you have an active libido.