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Capten_Obvious

54 M Fremont, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:34pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Construction
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
FIRST I wanted to mention how amazed I am at the sheer number of *cough*supermodels that are n this site and how fortunate we are to rub shoulders with the most beautiful *COUGH* women on Earth! (lol)
Hi, I'm Ken and I'm here to to find someone real and can just be themselves who is seriously looking to find someone, who wants to somehow find ...to find how to, or someway to find the way to... to something? Orrr...
Okay, what I'm trying to say is I'd like this to be as painless as possible and just do what we're supposedly all here to do- Just be ourselves so there's no surprises down the road. There's someone perfect for everyone and if you're not being yourself how can you expect to find your perfect match? I don't know about you but I don't feel like spending any more time in this revolving door of internet dating than I have to
I am a good guy. I work hard, don't exactly love what I do but it pays the bills and I'm okay with that but I constantly strive to better myself in any way I can and I refuse to sweat the small stuff; life's too short.
I could be described also as maybe brutally honest and that means in all areas and while I don't go being insulting to anyone I don't hide how I feel and for better or worse, there's no mystery in me.

Given the opportunity I love being a romantic and always thoughtful, usually placing you before myself and I don't think a woman has caring and giving and not one to let you forget how much you're appreciated I live by both karma and do unto others as cheesy as that sounds you really can't go wrong with the two.

I love me some long, slow, deeeeep kisses that make you forget where you are as both the world and time itself-
...just
...melts
... away . . .
At that moment there's just you... me... and that slow, repetitive, honking sound, coming from the cars behind us waiting for us to get the hell out of the way because the light's been green the whole time! Bad us!

I'm generally a happy person and I'm happiest when I can make those around me happy and laughing as well so I do what I can to make that happen.

If you're into such things, my Meyers-Briggs personality type has tested, at different times, as an ESTJ (the guardian) and a ISFJ (the protector) so that's fairly consistent either way. Classic Cancer traits.

I like lots of stuff, who doesn't. Point is I think anything would be the best if we did them together.

If you have questions, feel free to ask. if you're interested let me know because a big part of this venue is timing and being where the person best for you will be here at the same time and you meet and fate takes over.

Speaking of meet, I rarely check who has picked me in the "Meet Me" feature so, I don't recommend that as being an effective way to get my attention.

I don't bite... I could bite but that'll be extra- lol
I'm try my best to be a nice guy and who knows? I might just be your Prince Charming. At least I don't turn back into a mouse at midnight and I'm very much looking forward to treating you like the queen herself.

Thanks for stopping by my profile but if you have to go then the best of luck to you
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Tryin to make it day by day and doing what I can to leave the planet in better condition than when I got here
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Geeeeez, ummm- Building/Repairing/Designing stuff in much more than just construction areas and figuring out the best, easiest and most efficient way(s) to do them but that's just work-related.
I'm good at being nice, thoughtful, supportive, communicative, dependable, romantic, passionate and all the things it seems necessary to actually have to ask for on here when they should be expected and automatic.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Umm, wow- I've never been "people", I've only been me. You may want to ask people, not me, but if you ask me I'd say they notice that I'm there now and right before that I wasn't
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-Books- Anything by Larry Flynt (kidding) Actually, it was one called "Weaveworld" by Clive Barker, Loved It! Haven't been reading books lately- more soaking up info on the internet almost obsessively
-Movies- only good ones
-I don't watch TV at all, re: reality shows and commercials SUCK
-Music- Good music. Raised on Rock n Roll, Bay Area Stations are the worst, I don't dig rap or music saying "bitches and ho's" constantly, but I'm Hella Eclectic (lol)
-Food- Good food- but you knew I was gonna say that huh....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Daughter and her love-
Oh, more than six?
Okay then, Music,
Sunshine,
A woman to love, Kissing/kissing in warmish rain
Passion,
Falling madly in love, acting like kids because of it and thus causing people to say "Get A ROOM!"
Good Food,
Pink Lemonade
and MILK,
A Comfortable Home,
Making Vertical Lists,
The Entire List From Sound of Music,
aaaaand
Not setting Limits on My Favorite Things. I Love That!!
So, Counting My Daughter (7 times at least) that's What, 26 or So? Sounds About Right...
Lots More Actually- I'm Just Getting Started
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm sorry, I was thinking about something. Now, what?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being as typical as I can, typically
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...did you get that?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You beat me to it...
-You like what I wrote.
-You had no patience to read it and you want to ask me questions about things I told you already.
-You're dying to tell me how to think and how to re-write my profile.
-You owe me money and want to pay me back
-You just think I'm cool

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