ITS NYE 2013 and I am Headed over to The Funky Monkey downtown Hayward between A and B streets so I won't be checking my email but better yet, I WILL be there! lol
Okay, back to profiling me...
I kiss like a spider apparently- who knew...? (tests)
Okay then. Before this re-write I had this huge essay and I thought how it could possibly be sending the wrong message because no matter how much I wrote it was more a reflection of my mood and it still didn't give an accurate description of who I really am and may mislead someone because that's all they saw. Still, a few words can't possibly sum up me and all my layers... yeah, I'm not going "the onion" route but the layers seemed apropos- lol
Hi! I'm a very honest guy and I will always do what I say when I say I will. I'm chivalrous, romantic, affectionate and thoughtful. I'm a huge believer in karma and always act accordingly. I'm a fairly neat person and don't mind cleaning at all- not interested in becoming someones maid.
Speaking of being someones maid, I have, as of July 2013, a 16 year old daughter who is the absolute love of my life, even now, when she doesn't care about her Dad anymore. I'm not downgrading your prospective importance, I'm just saying I live and breath for her and always will.
I like all kinds of foods and it's been rumored that I cook a few pretty damn well but my dishes tend to lean towards the "OMG that's alot of calories!" direction. I mean who knew my home-made oatmeal chocolate chip cookies weren't healthy?!? I Seriously, I have been trying to eat healthier but I think it would be alotta fun to create some new dishes together from combining ideas from our own cookbooks. Recently I've started attempting Asian foods which I love and even some healthy foods that still taste reasonably good (lol)
I love doing road trips, sightseeing, lakes, rivers, beaches,the woods, mountains, bike rides and everything between. LOVE the sun but making out in the warm spring rain has it's merits too. I also like to just chill sometimes and watch a good movie on the home theater. My bucket list has France and Italy on it, in caps.
I really love to work with my hands- I have been since I was 11 and I'm really good at it and I can fix almost anything. I was a carpenter, etc in the first half of my career and an electrician since. I don't mean "I can probably do/fix that" like a handyman- I'm highly trained and do high quality work.There's nothing Ive attempted that didn't come out well and it sometimes amazed even myself. In that regard I'm a perfectionist.
I still love rock n roll although I do have an eclectic music collection and I'll listen to almost anything. I love live music from concerts to smaller, intimate club venues and I love to dance but haven't gone for quite awhile. For the past year or so I've been trying to improve my pool game to what it once was and aside from that I like alot of sports but I rarely watch any on TV. For the past 3 years I haven't even subscribed to any cable provider because TV, to me, has little to offer in the way of true entertainment but I do get embarrassed when some global crisis occurs and I have no idea it happened- maybe that's the "bliss" they were talking about- lol
I detest people that create or feel the need to create or be involved in drama and I hate confrontation of any kind because seriously- I see no reason to live that way and won't. I'm not an insecure person so I don't deal in petty jealousies or being possessive. Two people that care for each other should have the others back not stab it. I'm not perfect but I will always try my best to be supportive and attentive in every situation. Drama just drains me and is both mentally and physically corrosive. I think that proves the theory that drama kings/queens suck the life out of you- lol
I suppose I should mention that I'm kinda a clown. I don't wear a honking nose and 30" shoes but I love to laugh and strive to keep everyone I come into contact with smiling, if not totally cracking up. I can find humor in almost anything so I hope you're not the dead serious type. Seriously...
Oops, shit- this one turned out long too... dammit!
Wanna know what I think? I think that starting a relationship and all that should be one of the easiest things on earth to do. Staying in one takes compromise, integrity, honesty, and constant communication. That may include swallowing pride sometimes, admitting we're wrong and the like. I have no problem doing this and am completely willing to do so to achieve our goals and I hope to find a woman like that too. Only then can WE become the single entity which becomes stronger than either of us could have been by separately and the world becomes our oyster.
Well there's my basic outline. I hope that's enough to get you interested yet leave you wanting to know more...
Yes, this is the profile version of Chinese food- want another bite?