36 Surrey, British Columbia, CA
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My self-summary
I often break out into song when something reminds me of the lyrics. I tend to be whimsy, bouncy, playful, and affectionate. I love play on words, exchanging witty banter, and using innuendo. Think The Big Bang Theory's style at times, and Coupling at other times.

I surprise people when they sit and talk to me. They expect a ditz because of my energy but they find that I am actually quite curious, intelligent, perceptive, intuitive, and insightful.

The worst kind of trouble I get up to is brainstorming acts of kindness. Do you have an idea to share?

I really mean it when I say the little things make me happy. I still have a child-like wonder at nature and the world.

My favourite topics to both read and talk about are psychology, mental health, addictions, behaviour (causes and interventions), world cultures, science, technology.
What I’m doing with my life
I have always gravitated towards the most interesting and challenging cases and my career in mental health reflects that. I absolutely love my work. I'm exactly where I want to be.

I'm financially secure and value stability and financial independence. I have a career, own my car, my home, and work hard. I balance that by being very social. I have the freedom to go out for dinner or a show whenever the whim strikes me. Which is often.

I would call myself a city or cultural explorer. I like to check out the hidden gems only the locals know about. I love road trips.

I really enjoy hiking. I was going 3x a week rain or shine for approx 1-1.5hrs. I actually really like going to the gym, so long as it isn't regimented.
I’m really good at
I'm a great listener, empathetic
Approaching problems from different angles.
Seeing the positives in any given situation
Teaching life skills

Calling people on their shit in a way that makes them laugh
Taking personal responsibility

Doing the moves to Caramel Dansen.
The first things people usually notice about me
Random people comment on how "bright" my eyes are. How they change colour.

How I bounce when I get really excited, even in an intellectual conversation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Typically adventure, fantasy, psychological thriller, and suspense. Favourite characters are Lincoln Rhyme, Drizzt, Dexter Morgan, Alex Cross, Dirk Pitt, Jack Reacher, Harry Dresden.

Tao Te Ching

My fav movies are horror/thriller/action. I'm not a fan of low brow humour, but otherwise also enjoy comedies. Pretty much anything that doesn't move at a snail pace, except documentaries, which are fascinating.

My favourite TV shows have been An American Horror Story, Big Bang Theory, Alphas, and Touch. Science / nature / catastrophe / ancient civilization shows. TED talks. Most anything on Space or Discovery channel. I tend to gravitate towards home improvement as well.

Looking for a new series to get hooked onto. Any suggestions?

Teletoon Retro!!!

Older are Coupling, Scrubs, House, The Boondocks, Avatar -The Last Airbender, Buffy, the 4400, Gilmore Girls, Farscape, Star Trek TNG and Deep Space 9, Stargate, Alias, Nikita, Dark Angel, Hoarders, Canada's Worst Driver, Intervention.

I relish in finding the next big RnB artist before anyone else has heard of them. Or old school less known R&B artists. I also enjoy music from the Motown and doo wop era. Oh and classic rock.

I love trying food from different ethnicities, especially hole-in-the-walls. Lately I've been making Indian, Thai, and Canadian - Chinese dishes on a regular basis. BAM!
The six things I could never do without
Being Social
Learning / internet (had to sneak it in)
Playing with my dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Psychology, mental health, personality disorders, brainstorming how to teach life-skills and how to make a positive impact on their day.

Trying to find the next hole-in-the-wall to check out.

Pondering different sides of issues.
Usually random thoughts from what I see in my environment.
On a typical Friday night I am
I like to go to poetry slams, music bingo, trivia nights, a movie, stand up comedy, A Burlesque show, play darts in a dive, watch Rugby or Australian rules Football at a pub, basketball toss at the arcade or pub, board game night, nerd out looking at new tech advances online, cuddling, a restaurant, and meet new people. I *heart* Netflix. I may play hopscotch around puddles or be kicking dry leaves.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really outgoing but scared of performing
You should message me if
I'm neither an adreneline junkie nor a homebody and I'm looking for the same. You aren't embarrassed by playful antics. You don't think in terms of black or white. You are non-judgmental and enjoy the company of others.