I'm an ESFJ if you'd like to know.
Something I've learned from life is that not everything you want will work exactly the way you would like it to, but that never means to give up whether it be school, work or relationship related.
I am someone who truly values friendships, especially close relationships. You have friends that are there for a season, a reason, and a lifetime, and I think I'm able to discern pretty well which one someone falls into pretty quickly. Even though I'm pretty young, I learned from my first relationship to never disregard your friends when entering a relationship because not only are they there to comfort you, but they are also there to remind you to keep a sense of individuality from who you date.
Also just as a side note, if you feel the need to label yourself as "masculine" as if that somehow makes you better, then we probably won't get along. I don't like stereotypical labels because it means you automatically put someone in a box instead of allowing someone to be themselves.