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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Asian, White
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I try hard to be nice and look out for the people around me. I was born in Japan, but am half Chinese. I grew up in Northern California and really miss it, but find myself unable to leave NY for a number of reasons. I'm really happy that I have an awesome brother. I love aquariums and riding trains. I can do a lot of kind of weird but potentially life saving things like build a really good fire quickly, fly and land a small plane, play a variety of musical instruments at decent level and some pretty well, make origami anything, and parallel park a stickshift truck in a tiny spot on a really steep hill in San Francisco.

I recently won an Emmy for "Video Relay Operating." I'm excited, but I'm not really sure what video relay operating is.

I also just found out that I can indefinitely get me and a guest into MOMA for free... Join me?
What I’m doing with my life
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Editing documentaries, which I really love doing. But trying to figure out if there's something else I could do in a different city...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Rhythm. Getting along with little kids, babies and parents. Picking out really good oranges. Biking through crazy New York traffic. Identifying songs uncomfortably fast. Knowing where you left your keys. I'm not especially talented at, but I really enjoy washing dishes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My teeth, my approachability.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Willie Nelson, Talking Heads, Pixies, Melvins, Pink Floyd, Fugazi, Elliot Smith, Jesus Lizard, Steely Dan, this dub mix my friend just gave me.

Movies: Out of Sight, Say Anything, The Blues Brothers, Videodrome, Tampopo, Blood Simple.

Food: Fruit, Ramen, Sushi, Dim Sum, Fried Catfish Po' Boys, Tater Tots, Grilled Cheese.

Books: I'm currently reading The Three Body Problem by Liu Cixin.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Fruit
My Bike
Flip Flops
My friends cracking me up
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sound. Dust bunnies. Would it be crazy to get a cabin in the Catskills? And how to surprise my friends with things in the mail.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not going out in my neighborhood!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a really awesome dancer, but only when I'm alone.
You should message me if
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You're down to earth and thoughtful, and kinda have it figured out, but not really.