Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm sort of a jack of all trades, master of none as I'm now in my
4th career. I have my doctorate in Biochemistry, I've sold fine
white powder, I've counseled people on life, love, and the pursuit
of happiness, and now I "take pictures"!
* Maybe I shouldn't be surprised since My Myers-Briggs ENFP
personality predicts that behavior. People I lend money to tell me
how generous I am. I'm 5' 6.5", or about 5'8" with my heels
* I was previously Chinese but now I'm Thai-Indonesian.
* There are many more photos and albums only visible in the desktop
version, not the mobile version of the OKC app.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm very excited about a thumbprint index I'm developing. You know
how at the market, when you grab onto a fresh loaf of bread, it's
very easy to leave your thumbprint behind, even when you think
you're barely holding onto it. So I've started to now purposely
squeeze everything to see how deep a thumbprint I can leave behind.
I'm happy to report that fresh white bread and birthday cake are at
one end of the spectrum while watermelon is at the opposite end. I
nearly broke my thumbs off pushing into those bad boys! And
somewhere in the middle are bananas and sushi.
When I'm not at the market, I'm meeting with the most interesting
people I can find and trying to figure out why they would want my
business services. Sometimes, they tell me why, and sometimes I
have to tell them why.
In my free time, I'm creating content for education and
entertainment and my first project is a photographic tour of the
American Revolution locations. Hooray George Washington!
My son is in college and I love him and pay for his apartment. I do
my best to get into Boston to have dinner with him and hear about
his exciting undergraduate life. I live vicariously through him so
when he scores, I score!
I also hang out with my 10 year old sister, who lives with my dad.
She loves Canobie Lake Park where my limit are the tea cups.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...sizing up a situation and knowing which way to run
...photography and Photoshop
...a wicked slice topspin serve
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is how youthful I look. They might also notice how super big my
camera is, (that's not a metaphor).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like comedies, romance, stage productions, broadway musicals,
NCIS, Law and Order, Game of Thrones, Suits, Taylor Swift, Jackie
Evancho, National Public Radio (NPR), pop music, dance music, and
jazz. I'm a foodie and enjoy nearly all cuisines - sushi, fried
clams, lobster, prime rib, chicken tikka masala, stuffed grape
leaves, and much more!
Here are some of my favorite videos:
Flight of the Concords Comedy sex song
Ebay commercial-Civil War
Cover of Lady Gaga's Bad Romance. I'm excited to see these
musicians on stage this fall.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Loving relationships
2. Great friends
4. Good healthy food
5. A supportive community
6. Great Sex
7. An ocean
8. Flowers, plants, and trees
11. Travel and sightseeing
12. Not sticking to the required number of items in a list.
13. My Cannondale road bike, zoooom!
14. My Nikon D600 camera
15. Unitarian Universalism
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*Who will sit on the iron throne?
*My legacy and how I can help others and being a positive role
model for my son.
*I think about how to care for my dad, step-mom, and sister.
*And...I think about how fascinating the universe is as I'm a
little bit of an astronomy and particle physics buff. Hey, how
about that Higgs Boson? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1nNBZw9ICok
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being social at meetup events, doing a photo shoot, at the movie
theatre, eating out with friends, playing tennis, hosting dinner at
my place, no Friday is that typical.
Best of all, I might be headed to the airport or driving away from
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I feel guilty for not returning that library book back in 5th
grade. I just found it the other day in my dad's bookshelf and I'm
wondering how it got there...hmm
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*You like cultural activities, a variety of cuisines, travel - both
domestic and abroad, and you enjoy personal growth and development
with lively conversation on many topics.
*You are active and athletic, and enjoy tennis, biking,
photography, and the great outdoors.
*You smile more than you frown.
*You want to tell me your thoughts on life and current
*You are equally comfortable in jeans or sweatpants or in a dress,
skirt, or gown. And you enjoy manicures and pedicures.
*You are affectionate and enjoy passionate kisses at unexpected
times in unexpected locations.
*You don't mind having me along for shopping while I try everything
on each rack.
*Ideally, you would be Myers-Briggs INFJ, INTJ, INFP, ISFP, INTP.
Lord have mercy on us if you're also ENFP 😀
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