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52 North Billerica, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:49pm
Asian, Pacific Islander, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Icelandic (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I enjoy laughing and having a great time but also being appropriately serious. I'm more carefree than intense and I'm a people person.

My Myers-Briggs personality is ENFP, which means I'm friendly and outgoing. I love life and meeting new people and being spontaneous. People I lend money to tell me how generous I am. I'm 5' 6.5", or about 5'8" with my heels on.

I have a Ph.D. in Biochemistry but I'm a career changer and no longer in Biotechnology. Nowadays, I use my doctoral degree to get good dinner reservations as doctors seem to get preferred treatment. One of my previous careers was life coaching where I helped others figure out what they wanted out of life.

I was previously Chinese but now I'm Thai-Indonesian.

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm self-employed and growing my commercial photography and multimedia business. I'm creating content for education and entertainment and my first project is a virtual tour of the American Revolution locations. Hooray George Washington!

My son is in college and I love him and support him in his new life. I'm spending time with my sister, who lives with my dad.

I'm working on publishing a book about circles and I'm looking for a co-author who can help with the lines and angles (joke).

I'm being happy living my life true to my values.

I play tennis once or twice a week in a USTA league.

I was married for 22 years but I've been separated for three years now and currently undergoing amicable divorce. We've both been dating these past three years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...good conversation and helping others feel at ease
...teaching workshops and public speaking
...getting others to laugh at my jokes
...thinking of new creative ideas pong
...shavasana and Photoshop
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is how youthful I look. My personality is youthful and adventurous with a little bit of mischief :)

They might also notice how super big my camera is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like comedies, romance, stage productions, broadway musicals, NCIS, Law and Order, Suits, Taylor Swift, Jackie Evancho, National Public Radio (NPR), pop music, dance music, and jazz. I'm a foodie and enjoy nearly all cuisines - sushi, fried clams, lobster, prime rib, chicken tikka masala, stuffed grape leaves, and much more!

Here are some of my favorite videos:

Flight of the Concords Comedy sex song

Romantic video

Ebay commercial-Civil War

OFFICIAL Somewhere over the Rainbow - Israel "IZ" Kamakawiwoʻole
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Loving relationships
2. Great friends
3. Tennis
4. Good healthy food
5. A supportive community
6. Great Sex
7. An ocean
8. Flowers, plants, and trees
9. Chopsticks
10. Music
11. Travel and sightseeing
12. Not sticking to the required number of items in a list.
13. My Cannondale road bike, zoooom!
14. My Nikon D600 camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My legacy and how I can help others and being a positive role model for my son who is in college.

I think about how to care for my dad and sister.

And...I think about how fascinating the universe is as I'm a little bit of an astronomy and particle physics buff. Hey, how about that Higgs Boson?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being social at meetup events, doing a photo shoot, at the movie theatre, eating out with friends, playing tennis, hosting dinner at my place, no Friday is that typical.

Best of all, I might be headed to the airport or driving away from New England!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Oh ask me in-person instead :-D
You should message me if
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You like cultural activities, a variety of cuisines, travel - both domestic and abroad, and you enjoy personal growth and development with lively conversation on many topics.

You are active and athletic, and enjoy tennis, hiking, & biking, photography, and the great outdoors.

You smile more than you frown.

You want to tell me your thoughts on life and current events.

You are equally comfortable in jeans or sweatpants or in a dress, skirt, or gown. And you enjoy manicures and pedicures.

You are affectionate and enjoy passionate kisses at unexpected times in unexpected locations.

You don't mind having me along for shopping.

Ideally, you would be Myers-Briggs INFJ, INTJ, INFP, ISFP, INTP.

I'm looking to develop a friendship first without clouding up things by sleeping too soon. Let's also meet in-person as soon as possible because that's the best way to determine mutual chemistry.

My son is away at college and I'm at a place now where I want us to focus on our partnership and have the freedom for spontaneous travel and other decisions together. If you have school age children, we wouldn't be a good fit.