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39 F Sittard, Netherlands

My Details

Last Online
Feb 21, 2012
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Okay)

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My self-summary
Feminine, positive, very inquisitive, creative, calm, intelligent, caring, willful, spiritual, sensual, nerdy, straightforward, funny in a quirky or sarcastic way.

That was for the people that just browse profiles and are not in the mood for long stories ;)

The long-winded version: I'm a bisexual open-minded woman in an open marriage looking for some giggles, fun and friendship. Besides I love reading, so people that have a way with words will very easily charm me :)

Although I can get around in Dutch, I prefer to write and express myself in English. English native speakers also have a warm place in my heart!

Love travelling, meeting new people, experiencing new adventures and solving puzzles. The paradox of me is combining (pagan) spirituality with organic chemistry, romanticism with rationalism, gothic with business suits & glasses, black metal with musicals.

I really suck at describing myself so if you can succeed writing a better story, go ahead :)
What I’m doing with my life
searching for true meaning, happiness, knowledge and the perfect perfume
I’m really good at
smelling and science
The first things people usually notice about me
my very long dark hair, intense dark eyes and directness in a almost blunt rational way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: non-fiction
'Understanding Fragrance chemistry'
'The Emperor of scent'
'Ethical Slut'

Books: fiction, I'm a 'sucker' for anything 'vampire', mythology, gothic, magic
The Sookie Stackhouse novels
Any Clive Barker
Neil Gaiman
Avalon series
Harry Potter
(I told you I'm a paradox LOL)
and of course 'Perfume: the story of a murderer' by Suskind

Before sunset, The men who stare at goats, Lord of the rings, Matrix, Bitter Moon, Secretary, and of course 'Perfume: the story of a murderer'

Loads of tv-series
Dexter, True Blood, American Horror Story, Game of Thrones, Glee, L word, Being Erica, Lost girl, Fringe, The good wife, The big bang theory, New girl, House MD, Bones, Merlin BBC, Torchwood BBC, the old Buffy & Angel series, Twin Peaks

Lady Gaga, Old grunge, gothic, new wave, 80's-90's, some weird metal (used to play base in a black metal band)

Fresh fruit, stinky cheeses, apfelstrudel, Indian curries, sushi
The six things I could never do without
family & friends, perfume, books, nature, gardening, cats
On a typical Friday night I am
at home reading, making perfume, watching series (sometimes all of the above at the same time ;))
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe in true love and soul mates
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 30–58
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you love perfume, live somewhere exotic (obviously not the Netherlands LOL), are a bisexual, are in an open relationship, are British, live(d) in Canada or San Francisco, like to write and/or have a weird sense of humor