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  • Ages 22–33
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My details

Last online
Sep 18
Open relationship
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), German (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I've been moving a lot all my life ever since I've been born. Constantly moving around from different places, different countries, cultural and social environments. That would make me very socially and culturally flexible and I adapt and integrate well in new surroundings and places. I'm technically called a TCK, a Third-Culture Kid. Wikipedia that.

Other than that, I'm a pretty well-rounded guy and I pride myself in my witty, sarcastic and dry sense of humor. See if you can handle me.

Beijing born
Berlin raised
Philadelphia based

I have a great but very dry and sarcastic sense of humor. So I can be silly a bit silly. I do enjoy being intellectual and deep at a lot of times and I get quite opinionated on things. Hence I tend to discuss about many sophisticated things in length sometimes, depending on my mood.

I'm generally a very friendly, thoughtful and courteous guy. My multinational life experience has made me to be very tolerant of many things. I don't judge anyone for anything or any way they are. Everything has their reasons, whether good or bad. I just try to understand.

***Update 2015***

I'll be moving away from Beijing by September. Moving back home to Philly as first step, and then going to see where life will take me next. Probably will take a break a bit and travel or something. Where should I go?
What I’m doing with my life
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Was trying to figure my life out at one point after I finished graduate school in Germany. Moved back to the US, couldn't find anything much do to and then came here to Beijing and now I'm working here in marketing.

"getting by, 'til the day you die" (guess from which movie this is. It's one of my absolute top 5 favorite films)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fooling around, being funny, also being serious.
Probably just trying to be a good human being.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my large head, big flat nose, and my goofiness.
How good I'm (trying) to dance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Good stuff for people who love bad stuff.

Oh boy, I probably would have to write paragraphs on this. Let's just say that I'm an absolute film buff. Film and music is my life. Let's talk about this in person when we meet.

I try to read more lately, but I get way too busy with work, unfortunately. Some all time favorites:
- Catcher in the Rye
- Fahrenheit 451
Almost all books by "Ha Jin"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air - to breathe
food - to eat
art - to think about
music & film - to live
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Usually I just like to think about everything. possibly, about thought itself. I'm very interested in intellectual subject-matters. But currently I'm a bit over-occupied with work things, unfortunately....I need to look for a new job...any help?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either to go out with my coworkers after work, which usually ends up with us partying (which I enjoy). Or I just go home and relax from a week of stressful work...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm usually very open and honest and have nothing to hide. Let me think about this and I'll update later....
You should message me if
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You find me interesting. I like on-going intellectual conversations, or just to joke around.