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62 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55-68
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:31am
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a kind, caring, creative, intelligent and gracious woman with a generosity of spirit and an open heart. I am not perfect, and you aren't either - but we will be "perfect" together, flaws and all.

I lead an active lifestyle, which includes going to the gym, hiking, dancing, playing the violin, gardening and traveling. I enjoy live performances at Berkeley Rep, Freight & Salvage, Yoshi"s, SF Symphony and chamber music venues. Netflix is my friend for interesting foreign, indie and documentary films. Going to a movie, complete with popcorn, is still magical. I am physically fit and hope you are, too. I am open to learning a new hobby or skill, so please share your interests with me. Maybe you will teach me something new - how to play golf, fix an engine, navigate by the stars or grill a perfect steak - and I will do the same for you. We are gregarious souls and love to entertain, so let's bring our friends and family together to celebrate life.

My spirituality is an eclectic mix of all that I have learned and experienced in my lifetime. I have a well-defined value system which is my personal compass for navigating through life. Speaking of navigation, I have been to 28 countries and have a few more on my wish list. I have a passion for travel and a deep curiosity about the world. It would give me great joy to explore it with you.

Where is your heart leading you? I do hope it is in my direction.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend time doing the things I love most - music, dance, gardening, cooking, movies/theater and connecting with friends. I love to throw parties and be a guest. I want to share my life with a man who has some similar interests but who also has his own personal passions.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
whipping up a meal with limited ingredients, playing my violin, dancing, laughing with abandon, getting plants to grow, giving neck rubs, throwing parties, planning trips and sharing my feelings.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my warm and friendly nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Euphoria, West with the Night, Love in the Time of Cholera, Fear of Flying, anything by Hesse or Hemingway.
Amelie, Cinema Paradiso, Out of Africa, Ghost Dog, Sound of Music, Memento, Wings of Desire, Cherry Blossoms, Downton Abbey, In Treatment, Last Tango in Halifax. Dvorak, Bach, Prokofiev, Apocalyptica, Coldplay, R.E.M., Sigur Ros, Radiohead, Bon Hiver, Smashing Pumpkins, Piazzolla, Fado, Taraf de Haidouks, Gypsy Kings...and the list goes on and on!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, travel, my garden, my violin, Astor Piazzolla and iced tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
having a loving partner with whom I can relax , travel, cook, grow and have fun with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
dancing, watching a movie, visiting with friends, practicing my violin, reading a good book
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I bet you can't wait to find out!
You should message me if
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you are looking for an attractive, intelligent, confident, interesting, sophisticated and affectionate woman and you are an equally special man.