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61 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 55–69
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 27
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I am a kind, caring and gracious woman with a generosity of spirit. I have taken the opportunity to do a lot of soul searching and am ready for a loving relationship with a wonderful man - that would be you! I am not perfect, and you aren't either - but we will be "perfect" for each other, flaws and all.

Music has been a very important part of my life ever since I picked up the violin at age 10. I have had the pleasure of performing with a variety of ensembles ranging from duos to symphony orchestras, mariachi to tango bands. I enjoy music of many genres, from opera to rock and jazz to world.

I love to play in the garden. If you know the Latin name for Boston Ivy or know how to prune roses, terrific. If you don't, I would still love some help raking the leaves. I am committed to spending quality time to get to know you so that our romance can come into full bloom, just like a garden in springtime.
What I’m doing with my life
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Every day is a new adventure. My job as an administrator for a local planning firm keeps me busy during the day. I fill my life with the things I love - music, dance, gardening, cooking, watching movies, connecting with friends and foreign travel. I would love to share my life with a man who has some similar interests and some completely different ones.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whipping up a meal with limited ingredients, playing my violin, dancing, laughing with abandon, getting plants to grow, giving neck massages, throwing parties, planning trips and having fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my warm and friendly nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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West with the Night, Love in the Time of Cholera, Fear of Flying.
Amelie, Cinema Paradiso, Out of Africa, Ghost Dog, Sound of Music, Memento, Downton Abbey, In Treatment, Last Tango in Halifax. Dvorak, Bach, Apocaliptica, Sigur Ros, Radiohead, Bon Hiver, Smashing Pumpkins, Piazzolla, Fado, Taraf de Haidouks, Gypsy Kings
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, travel, my garden, my violin, Piazzolla and iced tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
having a loving partner to cook with, relax with, travel with, have fun with and grow with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, watching a movie, visiting with friends, playing or listening to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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you'll have to wait to find out...
You should message me if
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you are looking for an attractive, confident, interesting and affectionate woman.