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20 F Vienna, VA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 20–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:48am
5′ 6″ (1.67m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm Caroline! I am 20 years old, currently on a finite hiatus from college. I joined OkCupid to make friends and to find a significant other. I'm not interested in casual sex. I consider my best quality to be my kindness, and that's a quality I look for and require in both friends and significant others. I don't do any drugs, I don't smoke, and I'm not a heavy/regular drinker (although I may drink socially from time to time,) although I don't really mind if my friends or significant others do any of those things. If you'd like to send me a message, and you aren't creepy or otherwise unpleasant, I'll most likely respond :)

I am *very* liberal - or even beyond liberal, (and also completely non-religious,) and am only interested in meeting people who are actively accepting towards lesbian/gay people, bi people, autistic people, trans* people, people of any race or ethnicity, women, people of any weight, etc. Bigots don't make good friends nor significant others of mine, even if some of the ways they are bigoted/non-accepting/intolerant/etc aren't directed towards me and/or groups I belong to.

I am an extrovert (and being alone isn't enjoyable for me, usually,) but am shy and don't like being around large groups of people. I prefer to hang out with or or two people at one time whom I know well. In that context, I have almost unlimited energy.

I am completely bisexual (or pansexual, in some ways, as I am attracted to those outside the gender binary (i.e. genderqueer people, agender people, etc) as well as those within the binary,) and am open to both monogamous and polyamorous relationships. Currently I'm more looking to date girls, rather than guys.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a sophomore in college this year, but I haven't decided what I'm going to major in yet (I'm considering international politics with a minor in women's studies or biology.) I go to college in Iowa, but my family lives in Virginia, and that's where I live when I'm not at college. Academically, I'm interested in communications, international politics, astronomy, women's studies, queer studies, biology, and psychology (and I've read plenty of academic literature on many of these topics.) I really like to travel! I haven't decided what my career will be, but I want to improve the world, and help other people. I'm fairly ambitious, though, I've considered becoming a diplomat. Also, anti-oppressive work would be something I'd definitely want to do, either as part of my job, or on the side.

As far as non-academic interests, I love ice skating, tumblr, travel, shopping, road trips, stargazing, just getting out and about with friends, trying new and interesting things and experiences (I'd love to go skydiving, scuba diving, mountain climbing, etc,) and feminism and other civil rights and social justice stuff. I also have a pretty extensive coin collection and license plate collection.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Chess (I used to play competitively, and want to get back into it,) tetris, being kind, arguing with people (although I don't enjoy it,) hugging people, being unusual, accepting others, and certain video games.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my frizzy hair, and also possibly my unearthly pale skin. Personality wise, kindness I hope...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Progressive rock/metal, alternative rock, very gothy stuff, and electronic/trance, for the most part! Also some J + K rock and pop.

Food: Thai, Chinese, Indian (occasionally,) Japanese (sushi, but other stuff too!) Vietnamese, Seafood, Breakfast/diner stuff, and some American... Fast-food-wise, I love McDonald's (hate their treatment of workers though,) and I kinda like Subway. I love really sour candy, really spicy things (as in REALLY spicy, Habaneros, ghost peppers, etc,) and I really *don't* like tomatoes (or any tomato by-products.) Sweet things are usually tasty to me! But not in foods that are savory. i.e brown sugar barbeque sauce.
I would love to try all sorts of outlandish, bizarre, and extreme foods in my lifetime. Just for the experience. And I'm sure I'd like some of them.

I don't watch movies very often, although I do occasionally enjoy them. I tend to like most genres of movies, besides the really gory ones. As far as TV series, I really liked Breaking Bad and Hannibal. Oh, and I also like a bunch of anime.

Books-wise, I used to read A LOT, but...not much in the past few years :\ I do love short stories, though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet
Family (including pets!)
People whom I can be comfortable around.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, love, other people, and the future...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Talking to my friends, going somewhere with a friend, on facebook, browsing the internet, playing a game, or being bored and lonely. If I were in a relationship, I would probably be with that person on many Friday nights, but not all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I play video games sometimes (Currently CS:GO, TF2, and Left 4 Dead 2.) Also, I am autistic (Asperger's,) and that isn't a bad thing. If you think autism is a "disease" that needs to be "cured," please GTFO my profile. You aren't even worth talking to.
You should message me if
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You are kind, accepting, and want to get to know me!

PS please make your message more than "hi" :O

PS #2: Please don't message me if you are prone to yelling at people. I really cannot tolerate that.

Also please don't be creepy. Why bother? I won't respond if you are!

Bigots need not apply :O (aaaaand yet lots of them still message me)

No fedoras please.