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21 Vienna, VA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 23
5′ 6″ (1.67m)
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, I'm Caroline! :) I'm 20 years old, and currently working towards my degree. I joined OkCupid to make friends and hopefully to find a significant other. I'm not so interested in casual sex. I consider my best quality to be my kindness, and that's a quality I really look for in both friends and significant others. I can be quite shy and nervous around groups, but am quite talkative otherwise!

I don't do any drugs, I don't smoke, and I'm not a heavy drinker (although I definitely drink sometimes,) although I don't mind if my friends or significant others do any of those things. If you'd like to send me a message, and you aren't creepy or otherwise unpleasant, I'll most likely respond :)

I am an extrovert (and being alone isn't enjoyable for me, usually,) but am shy and don't like being around large groups of people. I prefer to hang out with one or two people at one time whom I know well. In that context, I have almost unlimited energy.

I consider myself somewhere around homoflexible, orientation-wise, and I am open to both monogamous and polyamorous relationships!

I am *very* liberal - or even beyond liberal, (and also completely non-religious,) and am only interested in meeting people who are actively accepting towards lesbian/gay people, bi people, autistic people, trans* people, people of any race or ethnicity, women, people of any weight, etc. Bigots don't make good friends nor significant others of mine, even if some of the ways they are bigoted/non-accepting/intolerant/etc aren't directed towards me and/or groups I belong to.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'll be a junior in college this coming year, and am majoring in International Relations and Biology, with a minor in Women's Studies. I also know a *lot* through independent research about those and other topics. I formerly went to college in Iowa, but I'm currently taking community college courses back in Virginia. I'm interested in communications, international politics, astronomy, women's studies, queer studies, biology, and psychology (and I've read plenty of academic literature on many of these topics.) I really like to travel! I haven't decided what my career will be, but I want to improve the world, and help other people. Also, I'm fairly ambitious. As a side note, anti-oppressive work would be something I'd definitely want to do, either as part of my job, or on the side.

Non-academically, I love ice skating, tumblr, travel, shopping, baking/cooking, road trips, stargazing, just getting out and about with friends, trying new and interesting things and experiences regardless of how extreme they may be (I'd love to go skydiving, scuba diving, mountain climbing, etc,) and listening to awesome music! I also have a pretty extensive coin collection and license plate collection.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Chess (I used to play competitively, and want to get back into it,) tetris, being kind, arguing with people (although I don't enjoy it,) hugging people, being unusual, accepting others, and certain video games. I also type at like...80 wpm, I know that's not the fastest but it's pretty quick anyhow!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my frizzy hair, and also possibly my unearthly pale skin. Personality wise, kindness I hope...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Progressive rock/metal, alternative rock, very gothy stuff, and electronic/trance, for the most part! Also some J + K rock and pop.

Food: Chinese, Thai, Japanese (sushi, but other stuff too!), Vietnamese, Seafood, Breakfast/diner stuff, and some American... Fast-food-wise, it's McDonald's and Subway for me. I love really sour candy, really spicy things (as in REALLY spicy, Habaneros, ghost peppers, etc,) and I really hate tomatoes (or any tomato by-products.) Sweet things are usually tasty to me! I would love to try all sorts of outlandish, bizarre, and extreme foods in my lifetime, just for the experience. And I'm sure I'd like some of them.

I don't watch movies very often, although I do occasionally enjoy them. I tend to like most genres of movies, besides the really gory ones. As far as TV series, I really like Breaking Bad, Criminal Minds, Hannibal, and a bunch of anime.

Books-wise, I used to read A LOT, but...not much in the past few years :\ I do love short stories, though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet
Family (including pets!)
People whom I can be comfortable/happy around.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, love, other people, and the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Talking to my friends, going somewhere with a friend, on facebook, browsing the internet, playing a game, or being bored and lonely. If I were in a relationship, I would probably be with that person on many Friday nights, but not all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm autistic (Asperger's!) And that isn't a bad thing - it's a neutral difference, not a deficiency. If you think it's some sort of disease in need of a "cure," don't bother messaging me, you aren't worth the time it takes to reply :)
You should message me if
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You are kind, accepting, and want to get to know me!

PS please make your message more than "hi" :O

PS #2: Please don't message me if you are prone to yelling at people. I really cannot tolerate that.

Also please don't be creepy. Why bother? I won't respond if you are!

Bigots need not apply :O

No fedoras please.