Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, I'm Caroline! :) I'm 20 years old, and currently working
towards my degree. I joined OkCupid to make friends and hopefully
to find a significant other. I'm not so interested in casual sex. I
consider my best quality to be my kindness, and that's a quality I
really look for in both friends and significant others. I can be
quite shy and nervous around groups, but am quite talkative
I don't do any drugs, I don't smoke, and I'm not a heavy drinker
(although I definitely drink sometimes,) although I don't mind if
my friends or significant others do any of those things. If you'd
like to send me a message, and you aren't creepy or otherwise
unpleasant, I'll most likely respond :)
I am an extrovert (and being alone isn't enjoyable for me,
usually,) but am shy and don't like being around large groups of
people. I prefer to hang out with one or two people at one time
whom I know well. In that context, I have almost unlimited
I consider myself somewhere around homoflexible, orientation-wise,
and I am open to both monogamous and polyamorous
I am *very* liberal - or even beyond liberal, (and also completely
non-religious,) and am only interested in meeting people who are
actively accepting towards lesbian/gay people, bi people, autistic
people, trans* people, people of any race or ethnicity, women,
people of any weight, etc. Bigots don't make good friends nor
significant others of mine, even if some of the ways they are
bigoted/non-accepting/intolerant/etc aren't directed towards me
and/or groups I belong to.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'll be a junior in college this coming year, and am majoring in
International Relations and Biology, with a minor in Women's
Studies. I also know a *lot* through independent research about
those and other topics. I formerly went to college in Iowa, but I'm
currently taking community college courses back in Virginia. I'm
interested in communications, international politics, astronomy,
women's studies, queer studies, biology, and psychology (and I've
read plenty of academic literature on many of these topics.) I
really like to travel! I haven't decided what my career will be,
but I want to improve the world, and help other people. Also, I'm
fairly ambitious. As a side note, anti-oppressive work would be
something I'd definitely want to do, either as part of my job, or
on the side.
Non-academically, I love ice skating, tumblr, travel, shopping,
baking/cooking, road trips, stargazing, just getting out and about
with friends, trying new and interesting things and experiences
regardless of how extreme they may be (I'd love to go skydiving,
scuba diving, mountain climbing, etc,) and listening to awesome
music! I also have a pretty extensive coin collection and license
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Chess (I used to play competitively, and want to get back into it,)
tetris, being kind, arguing with people (although I don't enjoy
it,) hugging people, being unusual, accepting others, and certain
video games. I also type at like...80 wpm, I know that's not the
fastest but it's pretty quick anyhow!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my frizzy hair, and also possibly my unearthly pale
skin. Personality wise, kindness I hope...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Progressive rock/metal, alternative rock, very gothy stuff,
and electronic/trance, for the most part! Also some J + K rock and
Food: Chinese, Thai, Japanese (sushi, but other stuff too!),
Vietnamese, Seafood, Breakfast/diner stuff, and some American...
Fast-food-wise, it's McDonald's and Subway for me. I love really
sour candy, really spicy things (as in REALLY spicy, Habaneros,
ghost peppers, etc,) and I really hate tomatoes (or any tomato
by-products.) Sweet things are usually tasty to me! I would love to
try all sorts of outlandish, bizarre, and extreme foods in my
lifetime, just for the experience. And I'm sure I'd like some of
I don't watch movies very often, although I do occasionally enjoy
them. I tend to like most genres of movies, besides the really gory
ones. As far as TV series, I really like Breaking Bad, Criminal
Minds, Hannibal, and a bunch of anime.
Books-wise, I used to read A LOT, but...not much in the past few
years :\ I do love short stories, though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family (including pets!)
People whom I can be comfortable/happy around.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, love, other people, and the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Talking to my friends, going somewhere with a friend, on facebook,
browsing the internet, playing a game, or being bored and lonely.
If I were in a relationship, I would probably be with that person
on many Friday nights, but not all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm autistic (Asperger's!) And that isn't a bad thing - it's a
neutral difference, not a deficiency. If you think it's some sort
of disease in need of a "cure," don't bother messaging me, you
aren't worth the time it takes to reply :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are kind, accepting, and want to get to know me!
PS please make your message more than "hi" :O
PS #2: Please don't message me if you are prone to yelling at
people. I really cannot tolerate that.
Also please don't be creepy. Why bother? I won't respond if you
Bigots need not apply :O
No fedoras please.
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