Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking forward to stopping regular work in a year and a half and
hoping to find someone who I love and love being with for travel,
adventures and continuing to grow, learn and enjoy life. I am
funny, sexy, caring and take good care of myself (most of the
time!) I also look forward to taking the energy I have to expend on
work to new interests, ways of being, and new horizons....I don't
know what horizons that would be-but, I am open to envisioning the
next stage of my life as something totally new including in a new
place. I have lived in New Mexico for 30 years but, could be happy
someplace else particularly with some humidity and water! I have
experienced relationships that mutually make our lives better,
easier and more fun and want this again.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Am working in a demanding behavioral health job 24 hours a week,
enjoying the colors of the Fall-just returned from a trip to Pagosa
Springs and got to see Aspens close to peak in the mountains, that
and a soak was just what I needed, as well as time with an old
friend of 20 plus years that I hadn't seen in a while. Reading Tara
Brach to improve my mindfulness and my ability to 'embrace life
with the heart of a Buddha', listening to African blues music,
Miles Davis, Coltrane and Ellington and spending time with friends
, joyful that the huge trees on my property are trimmed and that
any remaining weeds are dead! More time for other things!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good intimate partner and friend, gardening, nurturing,
dancing, cooking, decorating, having fun even while alone although
this does get old!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
American Horror, The Walking Dead, look forward to the return of
Orphan Black, and hopefully Longmire as well as Showtimes'
Shameless. HBO and Showtime series are great. I love a good
mystery, literature, and some non-fiction about interesting people,
events. I love the blues, but also most music from Brave Combo to
Brahms Hungarian waltzes-old country and bluegrass. Favorite CD's
that I never get tired of are "Pink Panthers Penthouse Party", and
music from Peter Gunn. Love jazz- Stanley Turrentine, Joshua
Redmond, Monk, Miles, Coltrane. All kinds of food from Vietnamese,
Thai to a slow cooking marinara in the Winter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music (including KUNM), art, good food, the love and support of
friends, being in nature, opportunities to make the world a better
place, being able to grow and learn in relationships and
spiritually(not organized religion) as a person.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being free in retirement! Travel, moving forward to further growth
and exploration, hoping there will be someone to share this with
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding from the week- alone, or with friends, or hearing music
or catching up with shows I like such as The Bridge!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Just ask a question- what's private and in what context?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not a Republican, don't smoke cigarettes, are good at
communicating, like to grow and evolve as a person, are looking for
a partner who has friends and interests other than you, without
addictions, don't believe creationism should be taught in school,
and think that people should be able to grow pot for their own use
whether you smoke it or not.
Who are you looking for?
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