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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:45am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe in getting the most out of life. I have two careers, and love them both. I also love my NON-work time, and try to savor each drop of that as well. I like a combination of city stuff, like dinners out and local theatre, and outdoor activities like hiking, camping, and just hanging out on the beach.

It's important to me to feel I am making a contribution to the world, not just complaining about its problems.

I believe in ethical non-monogamy. I know that's not for everyone, so I wanted to put it out there from the start.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having fun and keeping busy! Sometimes a bit too busy...but always with time for a good glass of Zin.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Making people feel comfortable around me. And a few other things as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! eyes and the fact that I walk so fast I bounce.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
OK...this still is just a partial list, but I decided it was time I actually wrote SOMETHING here...

Authors: Tristan Taormino, Lauren Slater, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Laura Antoniou, Tacitus, Suetonius, Lau Tzu.

Movies: All that Jazz, Godfather I and II, Casino, Vanilla Sky, South Park: Bigger, Longer and Uncut, Heat, The Big Lebowski.

TV Shows: Homeland, Californication, Boardwalk Empire, American Horror Story, Sons of Anarchy, Dexter, Criminal Minds.

Music: Classical, especially Baroque, Jazz, American Songbook, Of Monsters and Men, Depeche Mode, Dead Can Dance, Aimee Mann, The Cardinall's Musick, The Doors, Cowboy Junkies. (I actually like a lot of pop and other genres also...anything but rap) And I hate to admit this...but I have been known to get a Kesha song stuck i my head.

Food: Pasta!! (I've switched to whole wheat so I can eat it without guilt!), sushi, a good rare steak with a good big red wine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee, red wine, books (and Kindle does NOT count!), passion, curiosity, friends. My cat points out I did not include him. He does not seem amused...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The incredible interconnected nature of the universe. And when can I nap. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, at the gym, or vegging after a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a Fetlife account. Do you?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You love intensity and adventure with an intelligent man who knows when to be laid back and when to take charge.