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CarpeNoctem77

21 / M / straight / Single

Memphis, Tennessee

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.90m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Unemployed
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am philosophic, insightful, and shy.

My Self-Summary

What's supposed to go in a self-summary, anyways? I've met a lot of my friends on the web and one of them suggested I try this place to find a relationship. Not really sure what to say as far as a self-summary goes, I like music, computers, electronics, cars, cats, and my close friends. I'm pretty passionate about music, although I don't play any instruments, I enjoy listening to music almost all the time and quite a few of my RL friends are musicians themselves...

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm in limbo, I'm not too interested in college, but I still take tons of time to learn things on my own. I've found that I've probably learned a lot more about things I actually want to know about having avoided the college thing than I would have had I gone. I'm on the computer, working on my hobbies, hanging out with friends, and working with a local band all the time which keeps me well entertained, but looking for a lasting meaningful relationship at the same time.

I’m really good at

Technology and being there for people. I really enjoy being able to be that shoulder that my friends need when they're going through a tough time, or things aren't going great, or if they need help with something they don't understand. Materialistically I have a knack for pretty much anything that relates to technology, fixing, creating, or just using.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably the fact that I wear shirts that say things most of the time, it's where I got the idea for the user name anyways. =P

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I haven't read any really good books recently, but my favorites were ones like 1984, Animal Farm, Brave New World, things of that nature, as well as fantasy ones such as The Hobbit, and Lord of the Rings.

Movies tend to follow the same pattern, Kubrick is my favorite director, I enjoy almost every single one of his films. Recently I've been watching quite a few documentary-style movies that pique my interest; Home and Sicko, to name two. I like movies that show talent for filmmaking or have a good meaning to them, I've never enjoyed brain-dead movies.

Music falls along the same lines, I like talent in almost any genre, well thought, artistic lyrics are important but not a necessity if its purely musical, my favorite genres are 60s-90s progressive, 80s-90s industrial and industrial rock, classic rock, some 90s alternative, some goth rock here and there and recent classical pieces.

Food wise, I tend to like stuff that settles well and won't break the bank, I have tastes for almost any food, but really when it comes down to it, I can live without picking a favorite if it is nourishing, healthy, and inexpensive. I do love Sushi though...

The six things I could never do without

Love, Music, at this point my computer/internet, my cat, my brain as much as it bothers me all the time, and in the summer, Air conditioning.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything. You name it, I've thought about it. My brain never sleeps and it's probably why I sleep too much when I can finally have a moment of respite in my thoughts.

On a typical Friday night I am

Online and chatting, or out with friends, whatever, Fridays are usually like any other day.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Still thinking about it... talk to me if you want to know before I find out...

You should message me if

You want to... o.O