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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:38am
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Edit: I am doing my best in believing in what people tell me but I am finding that so many people just lie (to others or themselves) that I feel lost in this (whatever "this" means). If you know that you can help (with reciprocity included) please send an sos message of some sort. If not, please disregard everything else. Thank you.

I believe in the power of music and the sanctity of dancing without fear of reprisal.

I've heard there is a fine line between clever and stupid. I often times find myself sitting on the fence wondering which pasture is greener.

I'm a non-linear thinker, fighter, lover, athlete and nerd all rolled into one. I like the sanctity of words, their ideas and meaning, as well as selfless acts of kindness and good will. I have hope that all our problems can be solved through communication, compassion, empathy and understanding. I'm really not sure this is the best pick up line for a dating site but at least it is sincere :)

I like to say what I mean, mean what I say and do what I say I'm going to do. Even when I'm being hyperbolic, surreal and abstract :)

I like to be on time even when everyone else isn't. I heard it has something to do with the marine layer.

I ask questions because I'm honestly interested in hearing the answers (which I've found can be a rare trait in Los Angeles :)

The only labels I'm comfortable accepting are: Artist, Free Thinker, Deconstructionist and Master Leathersmith.

I like the idea of taking a girl out on an old fashioned date and having a newfangled adventure. Going to the gun range and shooting a 9mm, Shotgun and assault rifle then going to a small quaint vegetarian restaurant and having a healthy delicious meal over good wine and great conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Distilling it into a dating website.

When strangers ask me, "What do you do?" as their very first question I usually answer, "Everything."

That being said, I live a double life as a salesman per day (dealing with executive chefs at all the trendy restaurants and hotels in the Los Angeles area) and writer / leathersmith at night/ weekends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creative problem solving.

I'm gifted at having a firm grasp of the obvious.

I also have a very good memory for things that just happened.

Not to toot my own horn (but I did play the saxophone when I was a kid) but I'm good at a lot of things and tend to be better than average when I try something new; especially sports and stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People usually find it weird that I can read their mind.

But most often: Tall, nice and smart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like all kinds of literature, poetry, philosophy. I'm a movie buff so I love all kinds of movies but my favorite is usually Art movies. I listen to everything (everyone seems to say this :) but I mainly listen to indie rock. I enjoy eating well made food.
Listening to now: NPR, Edward Sharpe, Feist, Aphex Twin, Phoenix, Elliott Smith, George Harrison (early solo stuff), Alarm Will Sound, Venetian Snares, White Stripes, Black Keys, Rolling Stones.
Some Favorite Movies: Alphaville, Back to The Future, There will be Blood, All of the Cohen Brothers stuff, most Woody Allen (prefer the movies he is not in), All of Luis Bunuel's stuff, Warner Brothers Cartoons (and most funny and smart cartoons).
Some Favorite Books: Catch 22, Brothers Karamozov, Geek Love, Tao Te Ching, Lunar Park, The Alchemist, Watchmen.
Philosophies: Deconstructionalism, Buddhism, Situationism, Taoism,
That's all I have to say about that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Sunshine, Laughing, Family, Friends, Art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about thinking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finding the exact time and location of a; art show, music show, book signing, fashion show, or underground party because I never read the flyers. Then I'm there thinking I could be home reading a great book. And Some Friday's I'm home reading a good book thinking I could go out and experience some culture.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I've joined a dating website.

I was both an alter boy and a cub scout.

And I like the new Miley Cyrus song.
You should message me if
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You're curious and you're prone to doing impromptu kung-fu kicks and moves. You see a pile of props as instigation for a goofy pose and maybe an unplanned photo shoot :)

You're not too shy to smile at me and let me know it's ok to walk over and start a conversation.