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CartesianLogic

30 / M / Bisexual / Single

Tampa, Florida

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Busy, Busy, Busy...

My Marxist Feminist dialectic brings all the enlightened young women to the yard, and they're like "It's more egalitarian than yours", damn right it's more egalitarian than yours; I could educate you but I'd have to first establish a non-capitalist skill-swapping economy through which to arrange a reasonable trade for my time and efforts.

"If I told you your eyes are more beautiful than Emma Goldman's writing, would you smash patriarchal notions of human sexuality with me?"

[New edits due to recent break-up]
I'm no longer in a committed polyamorous relationship. I still think that it's a model of relationship that can work well and ours didn't end due to other partners, it ended due to a complete breakdown in communication and only one party in the relationship wanting to put the effort into making it work. It's also worth noting that I'm one of those people who is perfectly comfortable in either monogamous relationships or polyamorous relationships, so for the right person I'd be comfortable with whichever type they preferred. I do believe that the human heart is capable of holding more than one person in it at a time and that the current focus on monogamy comes from the patriarchal concept of women as property and securing heirs in a society focused on property ownership, so my views on sociology, misogyny, and capitalism in addition to an understanding of biology and anthropology all inform my views on polyamory . I think that open and honest communication is one of the most important things to maintaining a close relationship or any type. As I am now without a partner I'm looking for a pretty wide range of interactions, I'm always up for meeting cool new friends, physical and romantic partners, and I'm also open to finding a primary emotional partner, someone I can spend my time with and build something long term and meaningful with (not to imply that short term things can't be meaningful).

I'm a radical in many ways, I'm an activist, a feminist, an anarchist (although I see socialism as our best bet currently I see anarchism as a realistic ideal to strive for), an environmentalist, a queer rights activist, a trans rights activist, a labor rights enthusiast, I am anti-capitalist, anti-fascist, anti-Zionist (cool with Jews, issues with the state of Israel and the war-crimes they commit), etc. etc. I have a lot of strongly held views about which I strive to remain well informed.

I fall under the queer umbrella, I'm attracted to intellect and personality as well as feminine and androgynous physical traits and if I'm interested in someone based on those grounds I really don't care what's between their legs. As far as dating and relationships go, I'm most interested in cis and trans women, feminine and androgynous genderqueers, and maybe a really feminine cis or trans guy but it'd really have to be the right guy to interest me beyond friends and fooling around.

I'm currently living in Tampa and staying at Occupy Tampa, so my current home is a tent lol. Kitty and I are looking into renting a place in the Tampa area though, as I've found decent work here.

I consider myself both an epistemological and methodological naturalist, I think that the natural world is what there is and that's it. I'm ultimately agnostic and open to the possibility that I'm wrong, but functionally I'm neither religious or especially spiritual. I'm not comfortable dating anyone from a traditional monotheistic religion, but a poly/pan theist or pagan is fine as long as you're willing to accept that our views are and likely will remain different, and it also depends on the range and depth of said pagan's beliefs.

I have two tattoo's and plan on getting more. On my left shoulder blade I have the words Cogito Ergo Sum which is Latin for 'I think therefore I am' and on my left forearm I have a radial version of the evolutionary tree of life showing off my status as a Biology nerd lol. I also have my ears stretched to 1/2" plugs, 3 cartilage piercings, my tongue pierced, and a 6ga Prince Albert.

I'm an apostate (aka former) christian and atheist and have been active in local groups previously for both atheism and skepticism. Ultimately they were more social groups than anything else and they gave me the opportunity to form many good friendships.

My social views are rather radical; I think queer rights and womens rights are incredibly important because ultimately they're human rights and the fact that our society punishes people simply for being who they are is a great injustice. I'm also fairly active on labor issues and issues of social justice and environmentalism. I consider myself to be a post-third wave feminist and have issues with the way that much of mainstream feminism, particularly second wave and early third wave along with many RadFems, deligitimzes the concerns of transwomen and People Of Color. I also find it troubling that so much focus is on gay marriage right now even though it's predominately a concern of gay white men while trans women and genderqueers have to worry about getting attacked for going to the bathroom and most states still allow for them to be legally discriminated against in terms of employment, housing, etc. That said, if you're opposed to queer equality, think Ayn Rand is one of the greatest authors of the past century, believe Ron Paul is the best hope for our country, or happen to be fond of Fox News (Faux "News"), we probably won't get along very well.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, activism, ranting at idiots on the internet, and raging against the injustice that is so prevalent in the world.
I’m really good at
I'm pretty good at debating, especially religion, evolution, feminism, queer rights, the evils of capitalism, anti-libertarianism, etc. and I think this largely comes from the way I tend to argue my points with myself. Not in a voices in my head kind of way, rather because I have long felt that a view you can't defend isn't one you deserve to hold.

I'm not a bad singer, but I shouldn't be on a stage... lol. I do really enjoy singing though and do so regularly in my apartment/car/shower.
The first things people usually notice about me
My amazing reddish beard. Seriously, I get random compliments on it all the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books (divided by author)
There are more I need to add when I get a chance, I also read a fair amount of sci-fi, fantasy, and philosophy.
Richard Dawkins: The God Delusion | The Greatest Show on Earth: The Evidence for Evolution
Dan Barker: Losing Faith in Faith
Ayaan Hirsi Ali: Infidel | The Caged Virgin
Christopher Hitchens: God is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything
Bertrand Russell: The Conquest of Happiness | Why I Am Not a Christian | Religion and Science
Jerry Coyne: Why Evolution is True
Paul Joannides: The Guide To Getting It On (6th edition) (fyi, the most interesting and exhaustive book on sexuality I've ever heard of...)
Stephen Lawhead: The Song of Albion trilogy
Philip Pullman: His Dark Materials trilogy
George Orwell: 1984 | Keep the Aspidistra Flying
J.K. Rowling: The entire Harry Potter series... Yes, I'm one of them...
Kim Stanley Robinson: The Years of Rice and Salt | The Mars Trilogy
J.R.R. Tolkien: The Hobbit | The Lord of the Rings
C.S. Lewis: The Space Trilogy
Howard Zinn
Noam Choamsky
Suzanne Collins- The Hunger Games series
I've been reading more Nietzsche lately and I really enjoy the rhythm of his writing

Music: The Ataris, Andrew Jackson Jihad, Bach, Barenaked Ladies, Bassnectar, Beck, Ben Folds, Brand New, Breaking Benjamin, Busta Rhymes, Chopin, Collective Soul, D12, Dashboard Confessional, Dave Matthews Band, Death Cab for Cutie, The Decemberists, Disturbed, Nick Drake, Dubstep in general, E-40, Eminem I dislike a lot of what he says but the man is a damn good rapper, Evanescence, Eve 6, Firewater, Five Finger Death Punch, Foo Fighters, The Fray, Godsmack, Good Charlotte, Gravity Kills, Green Day, Harvey Danger, Hootie & The Blowfish, James Blunt, Jimmy Eat World, Kaki King, Korn, Linkin Park, Lostprophets, Lucky Boys Confusion, Ludo, Marilyn Manson, Matchbook Romance, Matchbox Twenty, Maximo Park, Missy Elliot, Mozart, Muse, My Chemical Romance, Northern State, Offspring, Panic! at the Disco, A Perfect Circle, Poets of the Fall, The Prodigy, Rage Against the Machine, Rammstein, Regina Spektor, Rob Thomas, Rosin Murphy, Scary Kids Scaring Kids, Secondhand Serenade, Seether, Sigur Ros, Simple Plan, The Sleeping, Slipknot, Snow Patrol, Static-X, Straylight Run, System of A Down, Taking Back Sunday, Tantric, Tchaikovsky, Tegan and Sara, Tenacious D, Theory of a Deadman, They Might Be Giants, Three Days Grace, Thrice, Tool, TV On The Radio, Vendetta Red, Yellowcard, The National, Pendulum, Pearl and the Beard

Internets: Blag Hag, xkcd, Pharyngula, Why Evolution is True, Friendly Atheist, Wikipedia, Ill Will Press, Bit-torrent, Jinx, Threadless, Skeptics Annotated Bible, Writers Cafe, youtube, let me google that for you, facebook, Watch the Guild, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog

Movies: Akira, Clerks, Clerks 2, Chasing Amy, Mallrats, Dogma, Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, The Dark Knight, Doubt, Harry Potter, Sweeny Todd, Juno, Mirrormask, Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Run Fatboy Run, Serenity, Stranger Than Fiction, Sunshine, Taken, Superbad, Zack and Miri Make a Porno, 28 Days Later, The 40 Year Old Virgin, Blood and Chocolate, Martyr, The Boondock Saints, Children of Men, Dan in Real Life, Donnie Darko, Fanboys, Fearless, Hero, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Kung Fu Hustle, The Machinist, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Monty Python's Life of Brian, Office Space, The Order, A Knights Tale, The Princess Bride, Religulous, Shaun of the Dead, Shoot 'Em Up, Spaceballs, Spirited Away, Princess Mononoke, Steamboy, Swing Kids, Wall-E, Up, What Dreams May Come, Mystery Men, Waterworld

TV: Firefly, House, True Blood, Monk, Heroes, Dexter, Stargate, Bleach, Trigun, Family Guy, Fullmetal Alchemist, Big Bang Theory, 30 Rock, Bones, Castle, The Colbert Report, The Daily Show, Defying Gravity, Dollhouse, Eureka, FlashForward, Glee, Green Wing, Kings, Legend of the Seeker, The Office, Sanctuary, South Park, Southland, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog, Californication, Chuck, Coupling, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Supernatural, Game of Thrones, No Heroics
The six things I could never do without
1. Affection
2. Internet
3. Friends
4. Music
5. Philosophy & Science
6. Good Conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to get the most out of life. Ways that I can help improve the world we live in. My mind never really stops working lol.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends / reading / online / really it varies...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Honestly, I'm pretty open about myself so anything you want to know is fair to ask.

As far as something specific to put here... I have my Prince Albert piercing in addition to my ears. If you're not familiar with it it's a piercing that goes up through the skin on the underside of the penis (right behind the head) and out through the urethra. I'm also very open minded to trying new things, I enjoy using sex toys with my partners and light bondage is something I've always enjoyed (I have amazing fur lined leather wrist and ankle restraints that my friends are always wanting to borrow lol), to me bondage is all about trust and I really enjoy that aspect of it whether I'm the one with the key or the one in the handcuffs. As a side note, you don't have incredibly experienced for me to be interested. I prefer someone open minded to new experiences but to me sex is always a learning and growing experience.

I also think about sex... a lot... Not in the whole 'looking for sex constantly' kind of way, but I listen to the podcasts and read the books of sex therapists and I'm fascinated by the biology of it all (I know enough to call a vulva a vulva and a vagina a vagina, I probably know more about the vulva than most women and more about the penis than most men lol...).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You actually read through this and didn't ragequit, you think I'm someone you'd enjoy talking to, and/or you think I'm cute.

You shouldn't message me if 'god' 'the bible' or 'faith' are in your "6 things I couldn't live without"; it's nothing personal, experience just shows me that it won't go well...