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31 Philadelphia, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm an ambitious, independent, compassionate, stubborn, hilarious, opinionated, empathetic, awesome, go after what I want, "what you see is what you get" so you can "take it or leave it" kind of woman. I don't believe in BS or sugarcoating. I believe a solid relationship, of any sorts, is nothing without honesty, trust, and communication; so I prioritize all three.

I'm a lover of life. I want to try new things (new foods, new places, new activities). I love walking my pups, Sasha and Bailey, which means you should be an animal lover, too :) I enjoy watching sports (baseball), playing spades, and can never pass up an opportunity for some verbal volleyball. Intelligence and wit are HOT; as are confidence, ambition, and having a general sense of consideration for other people's time and feelings.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a social worker/therapist at an inpatient/outpatient psych facility. I just earned my PhD in human sexuality (4/13/15) and am still in shock!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, communicating, problem solving, playing spades, verbal volleyball, giving head scratchies, losing the TV remote, and forgetting to turn the coffee pot off :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my eyes, my sense of fashion, and some other rather wonderful physical attributes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sons of Anarchy, True Blood, Masters of Sex, Game of Thrones, Californication, Girls, Judge Judy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Update: So I finished my dissertation despite wanting to quit daily! I'm still wondering what life will be like without my student status and the loss of an identity that I've spent 6.5 years relating to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Decompressing from my week. Being a therapist isn't physically draining...but it can be super emotionally draining. So I'm usually laying low, but that doesn't mean I'm wed to my couch, either! I'd totally be up for grabbing dinner, catching a movie, hitting up a comedy club, or a new adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love drinking OJ...out of the container...and I can drink it in the morning, noon, and/or night b/c it's just THAT damn good!
You should message me if
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You are emotionally and physically available. You should also have a pretty good sense of who you are and what you want from life at this stage of the game. I'm not saying you should've achieved it all...but least have a game plan! You are reliable, playful, consistent, available, willing to communicate and listen. You're the guy who doesn't care what you wear on a grocery run; but you are also someone who knows not to wear a striped tie with a plaid shirt haha. You are smart, witty, can understand my sometimes "ghetto fab" humor lol...are openminded, adventurous (would love to skydive again!), swing more to the left than right, politically speaking! and you kiss your mama everytime you see her. You also know the value of saying "I'm sorry." While I do pride myself on some of my better social worky qualities (e.g. being nonjudgmental), if you're misspelling every other word, call me "ma," send me a one-liner email that reads "Hey sexy, what's up?"; I will judge you! I'm sorry ahead of time!