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25 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:17pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Compulsively honest femmequeer here, awkwardly typing something that hardly comes close to a self-summary..

Radically politically conscious and active, immersed in queer communities and queer organizing for the last 8 years but with a passion for more than just 'gay' issues. Talk to me about queer homelessness, trans community access to employment, the prison industrial complex, or legit anti-racism and we'll have a connection.

Kinky, non-monogamous, hairy, body-positive, fat positive, queer queer queer and yearning for connection. Mutual respect is a big deal for me. I can't really think of anything else to say? I love hugs.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in a stressful job that heavily weighs in me but loving it all the same. Finally putting my master's degree to use. Reminding myself to live presently and with grace. Practicing eye contact with strangers. Perpetually in love with the city.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
productive procrastination, awkward social interactions, event programming. Swooning at butches, bois, boys, studs, transmasculine folks, ftms, other men. Just swooning, all the time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My curls.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TV shows.... I watch BROAD CITY, Grimm, the New Girl, Being Human, Modern Family, Parks and Rec, pretty much anything I can binge watch, American Horror Story and anything supernatural.

I can watch and appreciate almost any movie, except for excessive gore and violence.

My top 3 favorite cuisines, in no particular order: Mexican, Japanese (sushi), and Thai. I'm also pretty darn good in the kitchen, so I can usually satisfy my own tastebuds.

And music.... Here are some top music artists, alphabetically selected from my library: A Fine Frenzy, Alt-J, Bikini Kill, Fleetwood Mac, Florence + The Machine, Foster the People, Kate Nash, L7, Le Tigre, LMFAO, Lunachicks, M83, Madsen Minax & the Homoticons, Metric, Mumford & Sons, Musical Soundtracks, Passion Pit, Peaches, Red Aunts, Regina Spektor, Rihanna, Santigold, Sleater Kinney, Tegan & Sara (duh), The Front Bottoms, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Beyoncé, Drake, and so so so much more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, queers, tattoos, queer theory, music to sing along to, indirect sunshine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Decolonization, ethical non-monogamy, homonormativity, masc/femme dichotomy, mental health, higher education bullshit politics, QUEERS, radical fat positivity, queer theory, how to flirt without being awkward.

Also, sex is great but what happened to the good old fashioned date? Is it becoming obsolete? Am I becoming an anachronism?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Honestly spending half the night deciding what to watch on Netflix and the other half thinking about how enticing the idea of takeout and ice cream sounds.

Saturdays, tho. The sky's the limit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I own a taser and pepper spray and I take consent very seriously.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're body positive and fat positive. I love my gorgeous body so please don't waste my time if you don't.

If you want to experience a human connection through lovely, open, queer physical/sexual/emotional intimacy

If you like my profile

If you don't fetishize same gender love/sex

If you would like to go on a date with me!