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45 New Haven, CT Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a writer & a musician at heart, but somehow wound up retired from the federal government. My fed time started in the military & ended with the Dept of Homeland Security. Not the optimum career path for my inner soul, but that's how it went.

I've just completed attending an 11 month, 900 hour trade school to obtain a Locksmith license. I graduated at the end of 01/15 & am now I'm a licensed & bonded Locksmith. I graduated 1st in my class & I am so happy about the choice that I've made,
I also just landed a job with the largest seller of Locksmith hardware, tools & supplies in NYC. In the beginning I thought Locksmithing was gonna be strictly hands-on layman stuff, but it is really more like micro mechanical engineering, unique & precise math calculations, electronics & carpentry. Now I get to combine that knowledge w/ exponential possibilities. Way more challenging & rewarding than I had hoped for.

Grew up in Queens. I lived in San Diego for a year, Virginia for 2 & 1/2, Georgia for 4. Now I'm back in NY...for now.
My family and friends, who are indispensable, describe me as intelligent, kind, determined, creative, strong, romantic, capable and funny
I want to find someone with whom I can currently share what the world has to offer, but I also have hundreds of past experiences and cool stories to share.
I am as loyal as a labrador retriever when in a relationship.
I am hoping to attract a non-serial killer.
I exercise a lot when it's time to Just Do It.
I am passionate about my writing:
I enjoy singing and have been with several bands, although recently it has been relegated to the shower and karaoke:
I love movies and I appreciate every genre of film.
I love my Roku!
I thoroughly enjoy sharing a movie at home on a cold and/or rainy night. I'm a cuddler and I'm secure enough in my masculinity to admit it.
I don't care where I am, as long as the company is good. I've traveled extensively around the world.
I am most proud of the time that I served in the U.S. Navy. It made me a a well-mannered, honorable man.
I love everything about the ocean.
I enjoy a wide variety of sports.
I have an deep affinity for animals, although I do not have any pets at this time.
What makes me laugh hard?? Watching someone fall down in an embarrassing fashion.
I believe that it is crucial to see the humor in everything, unless it is really inappropriate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Pushing my mind to see everything as positive and clearly as possible. Staying focused on balancing the strong achievement of my goals with being there for my family.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ummm...Making a crowd come alive. Making people laugh, Being creative, Being affectionate, Problem solving, Empathy, Tenacity, Trivia, Tech, Communicating verbally and in writing, Knowing when it's time to exercise.. I stretch at least once every day no matter what.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sense of humor. My ability to converse about almost anything. eyes..only women seem to notice that they're hazel. I am a walking encyclopedia of useful & useless knowledge. I am never deliberately mean.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This is only a fraction of what I like:

*Anything by Kurt Vonnegut, Paulo Coelho's "The Alchemist", Graphic Novels, Healing Anger: The Power of Patience from a Buddhist Perspective. Buddhism Plain & Simple. Old Stephen King. Jim Butcher's Dresden Files novels.

*I can give the IMDB a run for it's money when it comes to film. I love horror movies & shows. Halloween is my favorite holiday.
*Supernatural, Seinfeld, Firefly, Buffy, Angel, The Kids In The Hall, Family Guy, Doctor Who, Sherlock, South Park, Star Wars: The Clone Wars, The Colbert Report, Louie, New Girl, The X-Files,The Walking Dead, True Blood, Game of Thrones, Nat Geo, Animal Planet and The Discovery Channel.
*I appreciate every kind of music with the exception of Gangsta Rap that objectifies women in a negative way.
*I enjoy pretty much any kind of food. Put it in front of me and I'll eat it, as long as it's not still moving, and it's not some type of insect.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family & really precious friends
2. Internet
3. Media (Movies, Music, TV, etc.)
4. Intelligent & kind people
5. Singing
6. Companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it would be like to be omnipotent & what I would do with that ability.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I never know what it might be. A good show or movie. Practicing lock picking while watching something cool on Netflix. Family stuff. Helping neighbors
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love good animated movies & shows & I always will. Anime being the exception.
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