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  • Ages 26-38
  • Near me
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6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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When I was a kid, my grandfather would take me out fishing. I would hold the rod in my hands and feel a slight pull and tell him that I thought I had something. He'd come over, test the rod, readjust the line, and say, "It's nothing. Just the bottom." After dancing this jig a few times over several trips, he looked over at me and said, "You don't have to keep asking. When you really have something, you'll know." And I think he was right...although...

Looking back, I recall many trips out where we caught nothing, our luck was bad, we'd feel tugs and battle and just bring up some seaweed or sea robins or sand sharks-- nothing worth keeping-- and somehow those days too were important and worthwhile and satisfying.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Carl Rogers argues that the good life is a process. I seek fluidity: teaching, learning, working, biking, yogaing, running, playing, floating, swimming-- attempting to find some buoyancy, without becoming static. (Probably something similar to your own experience).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Years ago I created two lists: things I did well and things I did not do well. I carried those lists around for a few weeks, but I guess I lost them. Too bad. They would have helped me out here.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My warriorship.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Magic Mountain; The Castle; The Unbearable Lightness of Being; The Man Without Qualities; 2666; The End of the Affair; Growth of Soil; Invisible Man; Don Quixote; The Moviegoer

Music: Parliament Funkadelic; Bob Dylan; Sam Cooke; Tom Waits; Os Mutantes; Fela Kuti; Spiritualized; Johnny Cash; Nina Simone; Charles Mingus; Johnny Hartman; Screaming jay Hawkins; The Pogues; Lee Hazlewood; Biggie Smalls; Billie Holiday; Bomba Estereo

Movies: Pierrot le Fou; Coming to America; On the Waterfront; The 400 Blows; Raising Arizona; Back to School; Casablanca; A Separation: Blue Velvet; Annie Hall; The Celebration

Food: Fresh
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Life just wouldn't be the same without:
good company and humorous moments
evening strolls
Spring weather
visits to the sea
delicious meals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Future food, future travel, future...past dreams, past people. past...a return to my breath.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes drinks; sometimes dancing; sometimes a meditation group; sometimes chill
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty open. Not sure I feel too much shame about any guilty pleasures...but feel free to ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are confident: you feel pretty good about yourself (where you are and where you're going) and you are looking for a partner to explore and grow with you. In short, I am looking for a positive woman, who is witty, compassionate, warm, and sharp.