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Casualfire

57 Newark, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:02am
Orientation
Straight
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing
Status
Single
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Speaks
English, French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think it is time to press the pause button. I don't think I am ready to date at the moment, and probably should have updated this profile months ago.

That said I wouldn't mind finding a hiking buddy, or a regular coffee schmoozer, or a co-meditator. Sort of a personal Meet-up group. I have a name for you: "my friend".

Also, I could also use some basic touch. Extra points if you are a hugger.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
...the very best I can each day. Definitely will stick with "day" as my measure of progress. I haven't quite mastered this "living in the moment" thing, but at least I am mindful of it..once in a while.

I am at the gym three days a week, lifting weights and lap swimming.

I have also begun meditating at a Zen center once a week in San Jose.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
losing my keys, forgetting people's names, knowing all the 2-letter words, and waking up minutes before my alarm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would say my smile (slightly impish) emerging from my reddish/silverish goatee, and a certain gentlemanly reserve, cultivated from growing up in Montreal and Toronto.

By the way, the first is not the last.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
SFMOMA
Stanford Theater
Shark Tank

Life is Beautiful
Shall we Dance? (prefer Japanese version)
When Harry met Sally
Breakfast at Tiffany's
LOTR Trilogy
Zulu
Anything by the Coen Bros, and Tarantino,

Hulu and Netflix (have no TV)
Six Feet Under (I worked in a mortuary for a year)
Downton Abbey
House of Cards

Bill Bryson and David Sedaris
John Irving
Malcolm Gladwell
Lately, I've been reserving online through my library, books you recommend in your profiles. I've read five so far, some quite quirky, but all great.

Loreena McKennitt, Enya, Deva Premal, Slavic choral music
Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, Don McClean, Gordon Lightfoot, Alison Krauss, Johnny Cash, Love Jazz in small venues, Pink Martini, Diana Krall, Chopin, Mozart, Sharon Isbin

Omnivore (no dilemma).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
You can pick the six you like the most:
Touch (anything skin to skin)
My children
My parents (and eventually my memory of them)
Watching ice hockey live or listening to it on the radio
My iPhone
Hope
Strong coffee
Eye contact
Intuition
Long walks
Pouring rain, storms (perhaps a casualty of climate change)
Silence, meditation
Loreena McKennitt's voice and melodies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why many women on this site shy away from confessing anything interesting on the profile question "The most private thing I'm willing to admit" but are not inhibited about revealing the most intimate details of their lives on their OKC questions. Well, thank you, just the same.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I was abducted by aliens when I was 12, returned in a few months, enough time to prepare for my Bar Mitzvah.

Alright, I sorta made that up...I was only abducted for a few days
You should message me if
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you think there is the basis of a friendship.