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57 Cambridge, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–59
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:59am
White, Other
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

Thank you for taking time to visit my profile!! (A note: I can't read "Likes" due to my membership type... Thx for the thought!!)

I'd love it if you are curious with a politically incorrect sense of humor because you can be serious, but you don't take yourself too seriously.. You want to adore each other.. I'm attracted to people emotionally and/or intellectually strong. That together we make ourselves stronger than we are as individuals.. I'm supportive of your accomplishments and want you to have something that's all your own...
You'll have your space to be yourself.. In fact, I don't think we would be happy together unless you have some of your own pursuits.

Seeking passionate explorers, romantics and adventures who are looking around the next corner.. Bonus points if like theater, symphony and opera and you're a golfer, tennis player, SCUBA diver, skier, like to fish, and sail and/or are an artist. I love the outdoors, animals, the heat of the summer, the playfulness of winter, the newness and color of spring, the challenges of sailing in a heavy wind, making first tracks in freshly fallen powder or the sound of my skates on a pond with no one else around.. I'm looking someone who wants a partnership.. You will have my loyalty and I will respect and value your independance..

I'm a successful professional who wants a relationship where both people grow and with one another..

My two college boys are my center...

Laughter and a sense of humor is needed to get through life....

I'm in awe of creative artists, classical performers and musicians for what they've accomplished. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to get far beyond stick figures in my quest to paint a masterpiece :)

I'd like us to have a relationship where we can both speak from our hearts without inhibition and practice conscious loving. Figuratively speaking, we should be able to create our own 50 Shades of Grey in that we explore our passions. If we can do this, the rest will follow.

I've lived in other countries, love to travel and have been spent time in most Asian countries conducting business and learning customs and practices of all kinds. I've been to the temples in Cambodia and the fish markets of Paris...

I'd love to hear what you think and won't be hurt if my ramblings don't hit that magical spot!!

Until then, best of luck with your journey!!

Oh, I don't have an upgraded subscription, so of you 'Like' me I won't be able to see who you are, but thank you for the thought!!!
What I’m doing with my life
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After many years in the healthcare industry, I now work with start-ups and companies needing help with turnarounds.. It's turbulent, but I love the diversity... I've learned that I have a passion for change and I'm good at it..
Trying to make a difference, enriching my life , giving back...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Skiing, piloting planes, tennis, squash, SCUBA diving, and skiing..
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my blue eyes, but I'll let you be the judge....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hendrix, David Bowie,The symphony, EWF, Allman Brothers, The Band, Creedence Clearwater... I love most music...
Sebastien Junger, Kurt Vonnegut, Vali Nasr, Dickens, Jan Krakauer.. Ian Flemming, Earth Wind and Fire.. Suspense and adventure novels are my favorite.. Breaking Bad.. Love food but hate croutons in my salad :)
Fairly eclectic tastes in artists: Frank Stella, Childe Hassam, Stuart Davis and Milton Avery
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides air, water, food, a toe curling, get a room kind of kiss...

Good friends..

Dark chocolate..

Spicy food, good wine and tequila... Did I mention dark chocolate??
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future and where my passions will lead me..

I'm concerned about what we're leaving for the next generation
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can't say I have a typical Friday night.. Playing with friends.. Going to the gym.. Local events..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll have to ask me.. I'll answer any question you ask me!!
You should message me if
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