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37 M Somerville, MA

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
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Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi, my name is Robert. I am.

I would much, much prefer interesting, rather than good, things happen to me.

A concise list of qualities ....
Communicative, hardworking, humorous, humble, emotionally mature, loyal, active, fully engaged in life, honest, intelligent/smart/educated (yes they are different).

ESFJ. Get it. Got it? Good.

I usually have a plan for longer term goals, but rarely sweat the small stuff and enjoy the spontaneity of life.

Perhaps a whiff of negativity to balance my optimistic pragmatism is in order? Scent for the day is proper spelling and grammar. Before we know it, our Constitution will be rewritten and start with "We The Ppl of the usa, LoL, in order ...."
What I’m doing with my life
Living by the KISS principle (keep it simple stupid), staying in the moment, and finding ways to contribute to society.

Professionally, my stats may say I'm doing just fine. Thankfully, I do what I do because I love it - lasers baby!! I was lucky to be born with a knack for understanding complex scientific things, and blessed with the ability to teach it to others. Teaching is the hobby, making/doing is the challenge.
I’m really good at
... communicating personally, professionally, and emotionally. I can't stress this enough. You'll know exactly what's on my mind, both factual and emotional, and I freely share this information. Styles can be different, but as long as the essence of the information is conveyed, I'll be picking up what you're putting down.
The first things people usually notice about me
Looks - my eyes and lashes, perhaps my dimples.

Presence - I'm usually full of enthusiasm, at peace, and practice a high level of self-awareness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
If you appreciate the brilliance of Top Gear UK and that it could be the most ambitious - but rubbish - show ... in the world ... that would ie get my attention in multiple ways. "It's all in the engineering"

- Two of the three flavors of Law & Order (No CI for me, please)
- NESN during NHL season
- Fox News for comic relief
- The Weather Channel forecast when I want to know what it feels like to be told a bold face lie

Books - Clive Cussler to pass the flights quickly. Scientific journal papers in my field (necessary evil of keeping up with the Jones' in my technical field). The Four Agreements is also a book of useful, universal truths.

I grew up 60 miles from the Mexican border, so guess who's going to try the chimichanga every time? Almost everything is fair game to me, especially if I make it. I cook because I like the taste of my food, and very often others do too.

World news is important. I can't exist in the vacuum of space, so taking care of "home" matters.

A tweaked (not tweeked) Paul Oakenfold Pandora station keeps my internal beat going. Some occasional classical (pre- this Millenia) trance works well too.

Favorite quote: "Whenever there is any doubt, there is no doubt."
The six things I could never do without
The Intangibles ...
Spirituality (note - not religion)

The Tangibles ...
Manual transmissions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... being in the moment.

... why all female voices on GPS aren't named Amy. Think about it. It helps if you spell Amy in an alternate way.
On a typical Friday night I am
... simultaneously flossing while sorting my laundry - by hand - to wash first thing on Saturday morning. Yeah.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
... thankfully, I have no secrets. Seriously. They keep me sick. However, I'm not going to broadcast my whole life online.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
... you want to enjoy a game of This or That

... <3 educators

... you a silly, slightly nerdy type