I would much, much prefer interesting, rather than good, things happen to me.
A concise list of qualities ....
Communicative, hardworking, humorous, humble, emotionally mature, loyal, fully engaged in life, honest, intelligent/smart/educated (yes they are different).
ESFJ. Get it. Got it? Good.
I usually have a plan for longer term goals, but rarely sweat the small stuff and enjoy the spontaneity of life. I usually have a pretty open schedule with this approach, but am rarely bored. Although I am happiest around people, some say I enjoy more than my share of time in solitude for personal reflection and self-improvement activities.
Who DOESN'T enjoy hiking in nature, long romantic walks on the beach, and going out with friends or staying home to unwind on a Friday night? Not me. (I guess this means I don't not enjoy them, errr ...) I just prefer other things more.
What is my dating pattern, you may wonder? I'm attracted to (and date) SINGLE women who are well-grounded, know their place in the world (self-accepting of blessings and defects), and are balanced thinkers (feeling and critical assessment) with good hearts. Rocking a dimple or killer smile will always illicit a triple take from me. If others tell you that you have these qualities, I'd like to hear from you.