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39 F Gardner, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am married to my lovely wife of 12 years (celebrated our anniversary at the end of February), Kayluun. You can see her profile through her linked name, or our couple profile here => LeighAndJen

Together we figured our curiosity deserved a little exploration, and so we decided to make separate profiles here to delve into what, for us, is the unknown. Be kind, fair, and open-minded with us, and we will become great pals.... probably =)

Also, because I know some of you are bigoted, self-centered, and closed-minded, I am MtF transsexual. I don't care if you don't approve, and I don't care if you have a fetish. Just keep your rude and ignorant comments about it to yourself.
What I’m doing with my life
I am an IT professional by trade, but I have been pursuing other interests for the past few years. Recently, I decided to get back into IT, but with the job market the way it is, I am doing menial work for the time being. Other than this, I am having fun, spending a ton of time with Kayluun, and just enjoying life and whatever it throws my way as a whole.

There are many other facets of me that simply cannot be condensed into a few paragraphs, or even a short story, but I will do my best with the rest of this profile, and leave you to decide if you want to find out more of what is and has been my awesome life, and possibly become a part of it.
I’m really good at
Talking - sometimes too much so. I have a very horrid tendency to interrupt, especially when I am excited. I am working on that, and I apologize to anyone in advance for my inevitable intrusions on our conversations...

Listening - when I place my hand over my mouth, it is a sure sign that I know I might interrupt, but I sincerely and honestly want to just listen to you - whether I can relate or not. I really do enjoy listening and, when I am not being an ass and talking too much, being the one you can confide in.

Being spontaneous - I have a tendency to do things on a whim, much much more often than not. I enjoy it, simply because it means I am at least a little unpredictable. So would that make me predictably unpredictable?
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes are the first thing people usually notice about me, if we are talking face to face. Otherwise, it is my boobs, or my ass. That said, I generally try not to allow first impressions to rule how a relationship proceeds.... there is a story behind that, a very funny one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a huge fan of anything Weis & Hickman, I am getting into Salvatore, and I just recently discovered Sherrilyn Kenyon. All of the previous are fantasy novelists. I am also a fan somewhat of Stephen King, but I do not like everything of his.

I am open to new books and genres as well - I have never read any Harry Potter book, though I have read the entire Chronicles of Narnia. I enjoy mysteries and drama on television, so I should probably like those kinds of books too, but I have never indulged myself. I -do- love to read though, very much so.

My favorite movies are probably the Matrix trilogy, the Star Wars trilogy and its prequel trilogy, TRON and TRON Legacy (I even tried to participate in the viral marketing campaign for TRON Legacy.... to no avail).

Music, I listen to everything except country (Kayluun is rapidly changing that), and hardcore rap/metal (that means no death metal, thrash metal, etc).

I love all kinds of food, and if I haven't tried it once, I am all for attempting to.
The six things I could never do without
My kids
My car
Life of all kinds - nature, space, etc.

I am sure I could not live without other things, above and beyond the obvious ones (even more so than life itself), such as air and blood, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my life has been like, what my life will be like in the future, how I am going to be remembered, or if I will be forgotten like the sands of eternity.

I also think a lot about what I am going to do to make sure I make an impact on others in a positive way, to help them live happier lives. What can I do to improve the lives of those around me, those in my community, my country, the world?
On a typical Friday night I am
Spontaneity - it runs my life. I could be doing anything at all, from out at a bar, to playing pool, to watching a movie with family, to sleeping. Nothing is typical for me, other than my computer, my car, and my family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am poly-curious. If you want to know more, ask away.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are ok with poly-curious folk, you can deal with the fact that my primary is my wife of 12 years and partner of 17, you can deal with me being trans.

If you are ok with all that, then I can listen, talk your ear off, be a friend, a confidant, a shoulder, a geek, a comic, a politically incorrect bitch, or just about anything else.... .most of all, I can be a friend, or more. Message me, I am infinitely approachable =)