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39 Gardner, MA Genderfluid, Transgender, Trans Woman, Transfeminine, Woman

Genderfluid, Transgender, Trans Woman, Transfeminine, Woman

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 26, 2014
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATE 11/11/14 - (added rant, removed rant)


I am married to my lovely wife of 12 years (celebrated our anniversary at the end of February), Kayluun, whom I have been with since 1996 (thats 18 years together folks).

Together we figured our curiosity deserved a little exploration, and so we decided to make separate profiles here to delve into what, for us, is the unknown. Be kind, fair, and open-minded with us, and we will become great pals.... probably =)

I am updating my profile, and reworking it in it's entirety.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
College for medical pursuit and engineering. I aspire to do nanotechnological work in the medical field.

I want also to attempt a Masters in Business Administration.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking - sometimes too much so. I have a very horrid tendency to interrupt, especially when I am excited. I am working on that, and I apologize to anyone in advance for my inevitable intrusions on our conversations...

Listening - when I place my hand over my mouth, it is a sure sign that I know I might interrupt, but I sincerely and honestly want to just listen to you - whether I can relate or not. I really do enjoy listening and, when I am not being an ass and talking too much, being the one you can confide in.

Being spontaneous - I have a tendency to do things on a whim, much much more often than not. I enjoy it, simply because it means I am at least a little unpredictable. So would that make me predictably unpredictable?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes are the first thing people usually notice about me, if we are talking face to face. Otherwise, it is my boobs, or my ass. That said, I generally try not to allow first impressions to rule how a relationship proceeds.... there is a story behind that, a very funny one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am a huge fan of anything Weis & Hickman, I am getting into Salvatore, and I just recently discovered Sherrilyn Kenyon. All of the previous are fantasy novelists. I am also a fan somewhat of Stephen King, but I do not like everything of his.

I am open to new books and genres as well - I have never read any Harry Potter book, though I have read the entire Chronicles of Narnia. I enjoy mysteries and drama on television, so I should probably like those kinds of books too, but I have never indulged myself. I -do- love to read though, very much so.

My favorite movies are probably the Matrix trilogy, the Star Wars trilogy and its prequel trilogy, TRON and TRON Legacy (I even tried to participate in the viral marketing campaign for TRON Legacy.... to no avail).

Music, I listen to everything except country (Kayluun is rapidly changing that), and hardcore rap/metal (that means no death metal, thrash metal, etc).

I love all kinds of food, and if I haven't tried it once, I am all for attempting to.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
My car
Life of all kinds - nature, space, etc.

I am sure I could not live without other things, above and beyond the obvious ones (even more so than life itself), such as air and blood, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my life has been like, what my life will be like in the future, how I am going to be remembered, or if I will be forgotten like the sands of eternity.

I also think a lot about what I am going to do to make sure I make an impact on others in a positive way, to help them live happier lives. What can I do to improve the lives of those around me, those in my community, my country, the world?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spontaneity - it runs my life. I could be doing anything at all, from out at a bar, to playing pool, to watching a movie with family, to sleeping. Nothing is typical for me, other than my computer, my car, and my family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There is nothing private about me. I am willing to admit anything, at any time, to any one.

Fuck the haters.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are ok with poly-curious folk, you can deal with the fact that my primary is my wife of 12 years and partner of 18

If you are ok with that, then I can listen, talk your ear off, be a friend, a confidant, a shoulder, a geek, a comic, a politically incorrect bitch, or just about anything else.... .most of all, I can be a friend, or more. Message me, I am infinitely approachable =)