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38 Niantic, CT Woman, Man

Woman, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Heteroflexible, Bisexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

Sorry to start the profile this way, but men tend to look at the picture(s) and not read past the 1st sentence on here, so it proves itself as we steadily have inbox messages from men? (And regarding pictures, we have no problem sending more as conversation develops)

We (yes, we) are in search of a real but casual connection (casual in the sense of time/frequency) with a woman that would be dating both of us. In terms of how it would go, we don't know? Perhaps it will always be the 3 of us when we get together, or maybe you would spend more time with one of us over another eventually. No set rules, so we guess we'll just see how it goes since all relationships are different.

One thing I (she) do consider is that while initially our search was more of the "3 of us" type comfort level, I can say now that if we all become a trusting relationship built on love, I think I would like it if a woman were there for him once in a while when I can't be. 'Not in the pimping you out sense that it may very well have just sounded like, ha!
-It's just that we do not get to see each other all that often & if he had companionship on occasion without me present, I wouldn't be opposed to that if it were the right person/relationship.

For anyone who has visited us before, we are still on the same search path, but we feel our profile is due for some polishing.

We have learned a lot on this journey together & may have a better way of wording things.. To be continued.

"You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free."
-Thich Nhat Hanh
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
We do what makes us happy. Always with the consideration of one another & our families of course.
Remaining open minded and non judging. -That's what we always try to keep going with our daily grind and doings. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Smiling, finding humor in most situations, telling people the truth no matter how harsh but in a way that they seem to be thankful for my words instead of pissed off. Haha!

Kindness, being non-assertive (unless behind closed doors, hehe), supportive, taking on more hobbies then he can handle at one time. A man of all trades.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This is good for conversation, not profile scanning. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*Maintaining happiness in all things we do independently, with our family & in our relationship.

*Why people upon seeing we are a couple, immediately label us bored and horny looking to bring a lady in to spice things up.
We are plenty spicy already. The type of spicy that would most likely make you blush.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Mostly home. Cooking, watching movies or working on hobbies.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You understand and appreciate that we are ALREADY whole, you are not the missing puzzle piece to determine our level of happiness. That is exactly why we are capable of pursuing this type of search together. We are not only in love, we are best friends!
To gain something in addition to without jealousy, now that's the stuff that true, real, genuine love is made of in our opinion.
Should it be yours as well, we welcome you to write us.

Do not message if:
-We aren't what you're looking for.
Meaning, we don't care to hear your opinions on our "wrongness" in your eyes. We didn't ask what your search is all about...
Q. Want to know why?
A. 'Cause we don't care.
(Whatever it is, you have the right to search for it!) Good Luck.
Also If you and your spouse (if you have one) sleep with endless amounts of people with no idea of beginning to end of your sexual tree we just wouldn't be for you. There is nothing wrong with "your poly" definition but as there are many, it's just not ours.