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36 F Hartford, CT

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Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Sometimes the people on this site make it difficult to have a cheery, purely positive profile.
(After this brief rant, you will find yourself in a happy place)

We are aware that our photos are vague. We are not trying to be sneaksters so relax your rule abiding ways & realize our search is just as unique as yours is... Another words, how we choose to go about it is just not up to you.
The pixels from the pics we have chosen are either not up to OKC standards with the limited face pics we are choosing to upload or some bored ass hammer on here thinks it's cool to report them. Relax, would you? Anyone we speak to we show our faces to, but it's our own preferred privacy/professional reasons to leave that decision up to us. We respect you, respect us. Thanks!

For most people, we definitely are not for you. For few select people, we definitely are.

We ARE two monogamous people (so far) with polyamorous beliefs. We both know this, we want a true, real connection in order to gain a partner.
Really "honest, casual but real" are the 3 best words we can come up with to describe our hopes in finding what we are in search of.

The raw truth:
Our particular search calls for independent, loyal personality types who are open to the idea of a "tri" type of relationship with us & also knows the difference between necessary communication & remaining casual.
We don't have rules as to how this takes form but we know those are the only things that absolutely are necessary. We do not have a lot of free time, so much of this relationship will be through trust & communication aside from actual face to face time.
-Someone who is busy as well or just needs much of their own space is who we picture in our mind being the right person for us & us for them.

~By casual, we don't mean non-communicative!
Please know that difference.
We are really beginning to wonder if the internet has numbed & dumbed down the value of communication prior to dating, banging, loving, etc. We don't mean years worth of conversation prior to meeting either, but for fucks sake how about some? Seriously. This is not an online purchase, attached to every profile is a real person(s). Recognize that would ya please?

"You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free."
-Thich Nhat Hanh
I’m really good at
Between the 2 of us we are a nice blend of brains, common sense, loyalty, love to cook great food, learn new levels of kink, evolving, remaining open minded & non-judgmental.
The six things I could never do without
Must haves:
Ability to Evolve/Open minded people
Roof over head/warmth

The material, sinful fun pleasure list:
Lazy days watching movies munching on snacks in pj's
Money (to purchase things for convenience & travel)
Personal space and alone time (very important to both of us)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
*Maintaining happiness in all things we do independently, with our family & in our relationship.

*Why people upon seeing we are a couple, immediately label us bored and horny looking to bring a lady in to spice things up.
We are plenty spicy already. The type of spicy that could make you blush.
On a typical Friday night I am
Mostly home and quite happy about it.
He may go catch a movie, or fix stuff. She may read a book.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-You understand we are already whole. You are not the missing puzzle piece to determine our level of happiness. We are happy already & in no rush to settle either. That is exactly why we are capable of pursuing this type of search together. We are not only in love, we are best friends. To gain something in addition to without jealousy, now that's the stuff that true, real, genuine love is made of in our opinion. Should it be yours as well, write us.