What OKC has taught us. Patience. HAHA. That and sometimes the people on this site make it difficult to have a cheery, positive profile. 'Chock full of personalities on here & not all understand our process. And that's alright, cause we may not understand yours either BUT we respect it!
Your way doesn't need to be our way, or this world would be one very boring place if we were all programmed the same.
With that in mind, let us tell you briefly how our search came about.
Oh one more thing 1st, we are aware that our photos are vague. We are not trying to be sneaksters so relax your rule abiding ways & realize our search is just as unique as yours is... Another words, how we choose to go about it is just not up to you.
Anyone we begin to talk to on here, we are more than happy to share pictures with because attraction obviously is an important ingredient. We just prefer to decide who to share ourselves with on a personal level and not splashed all over a public dating site. We aren't ashamed, just private people. Thanks for respecting that!
For most people, we definitely are not for you. For few select people, we definitely are.
We ARE two monogamous people (so far) with polyamorous beliefs. We both know this, we want a true, real connection in order to gain a partner.
Really "honest, casual but real" are the 3 best words we can come up with to describe our hopes in finding what we are in search of.
The raw truth:
Our particular search calls for independent, loyal personality types who are open to the idea of a "tri" type of relationship with us & also knows the difference between necessary communication & remaining casual.
We don't have rules as to how this takes form but we know those are the only things that absolutely are necessary. We do not have a lot of free time, so much of this relationship will be through trust & communication aside from actual face to face time.
-Someone who is busy as well or just needs much of their own space is who we picture in our mind being the right person for us & us for them.
~By casual, we don't mean non-communicative!
Please know that difference.
We are really beginning to wonder if the internet has numbed & dumbed down the value of communication prior to dating, banging, loving, etc. We don't mean years worth of conversation prior to meeting either, but for fucks sake how about some? Seriously. This is not an online purchase, attached to every profile is a real person(s).
"You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free."
-Thich Nhat Hanh