Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sorry to start the profile this way, but men tend to look at the
picture(s) and not read past the 1st sentence on here, so it proves
itself as we steadily have inbox messages from men? (And regarding
pictures, we have no problem sending more as conversation
We (yes, we) are in search of a real but casual connection (casual
in the sense of time/frequency) with a woman that would be dating
both of us. In terms of how it would go, we don't know? Perhaps it
will always be the 3 of us when we get together, or maybe you would
spend more time with one of us over another eventually. No set
rules, so we guess we'll just see how it goes since all
relationships are different.
One thing I (she) do consider is that while initially our search
was more of the "3 of us" type comfort level, I can say now that if
we all become a trusting relationship built on love, I think I
would like it if a woman were there for him once in a while when I
can't be. 'Not in the pimping you out sense that it may very well
have just sounded like, ha!
-It's just that we do not get to see each other all that often
& if he had companionship on occasion without me present, I
wouldn't be opposed to that if it were the right
For anyone who has visited us before, we are still on the same
search path, but we feel our profile is due for some
We have learned a lot on this journey together & may have a
better way of wording things.. To be continued.
"You must love in such a way that the person you love feels
-Thich Nhat Hanh
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
We do what makes us happy. Always with the consideration of one
another & our families of course.
Remaining open minded and non judging. -That's what we always try
to keep going with our daily grind and doings. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Smiling, finding humor in most situations, telling people the truth
no matter how harsh but in a way that they seem to be thankful for
my words instead of pissed off. Haha!
Kindness, being non-assertive (unless behind closed doors, hehe),
supportive, taking on more hobbies then he can handle at one time.
A man of all trades.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This is good for conversation, not profile scanning. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*Maintaining happiness in all things we do independently,
with our family & in our relationship.
*Why people upon seeing we are a couple, immediately label us bored
and horny looking to bring a lady in to spice things up.
We are plenty spicy already. The type of spicy that would most
likely make you blush.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Mostly home. Cooking, watching movies or working on hobbies.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You understand and appreciate that we are ALREADY whole, you are
not the missing puzzle piece to determine our level of happiness.
That is exactly why we are capable of pursuing this type of search
together. We are not only in love, we are best friends!
To gain something in addition to without jealousy, now that's the
stuff that true, real, genuine love is made of in our
Should it be yours as well, we welcome you to write us.
Do not message if:
-We aren't what you're looking for.
Meaning, we don't care to hear your opinions on our "wrongness" in
your eyes. We didn't ask what your search is all about...
Q. Want to know why?
A. 'Cause we don't care.
(Whatever it is, you have the right to search for it!) Good
Also If you and your spouse (if you have one) sleep with endless
amounts of people with no idea of beginning to end of your sexual
tree we just wouldn't be for you. There is nothing wrong with "your
poly" definition but as there are many, it's just not ours.
Who are you looking for?
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