(After this brief rant, you will find yourself in a happy place)
We are aware that our photos are vague. We are not trying to be sneaksters so relax your rule abiding ways & realize our search is just as unique as yours is... Another words, how we choose to go about it is just not up to you.
The pixels from the pics we have chosen are either not up to OKC standards with the limited face pics we are choosing to upload or some bored ass hammer on here thinks it's cool to report them. Relax, would you? Anyone we speak to we show our faces to, but it's our own preferred privacy/professional reasons to leave that decision up to us. We respect you, respect us. Thanks!
For most people, we definitely are not for you. For few select people, we definitely are.
We ARE two monogamous people (so far) with polyamorous beliefs. We both know this, we want a true, real connection in order to gain a partner.
Really "honest, casual but real" are the 3 best words we can come up with to describe our hopes in finding what we are in search of.
The raw truth:
Our particular search calls for independent, loyal personality types who are open to the idea of a "tri" type of relationship with us & also knows the difference between necessary communication & remaining casual.
We don't have rules as to how this takes form but we know those are the only things that absolutely are necessary. We do not have a lot of free time, so much of this relationship will be through trust & communication aside from actual face to face time.
-Someone who is busy as well or just needs much of their own space is who we picture in our mind being the right person for us & us for them.
~By casual, we don't mean non-communicative!
Please know that difference.
We are really beginning to wonder if the internet has numbed & dumbed down the value of communication prior to dating, banging, loving, etc. We don't mean years worth of conversation prior to meeting either, but for fucks sake how about some? Seriously. This is not an online purchase, attached to every profile is a real person(s). Recognize that would ya please?
"You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free."
-Thich Nhat Hanh