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CattyLs

31 / F / straight / Single

Princeton, New Jersey

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
—
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am genuine, hilarious, and quirky.

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My Self-Summary

I'm a walking oxymoron who is slightly askew and a complete nerd (but a cute nerd!). I'm still scanning the world trying to figure out what I'm meant to do with my life professionally, but that is secondary. I try to focus on life, which is too short, and who I am as not defined by my career choices. But a gal's gotta pay the bills so i'm lucky I love my job. I'm full of love and compassion and humour and more than likely some kind of crass or dorky comment. I know I was put on this earth to make positive changes and bring laughter into people's lives, and most likely in environments not conducive to such behaviors.

What I’m doing with my life

I used to work in TV and film in NYC before moving back to NJ in 2005 ago for a certificate in massage therapy and to work full time at a college library while figuring out my next move.

I'm now looking into getting my MLS and hopefully soon becoming a systems librarian since I enjoy both the book world as well as the awesome world of technology. But I also spend my free time designing and creating and doing graphic layout work as well as photography. I just keep being drawn to higher education, i'm meant to be in academia one way or another. I absolutely adore my job working at a library with college kids, they make me feel young and all still think i'm a student...I will cry the day someone calls me "ma'am" who is not from the south.

I’m really good at

diffusing tense situations, giggling incessantly, spending countless hours online designing or conversing or writing or photoshopping, comic relief, spooning, throwing together an outfit half asleep that ends up getting lovely compliments for the unique ensemble, back scratches and massages, online gaming (oh yeah, I will kick your ass), creating and assessing online digital fetish art, photography, sending care packages with books and music to people I care about, volunteering for the less fortunate, picking out the right music for a mood.

The first things people usually notice about me

My ginormous eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books: Brett Easton Ellis books, and anything taboo and controversial.

movies: dark comedies, indie flicks, mindless comedies and blockbusters have their place as well. :-) Top 5 movies (this week) include Heathers, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Election, Shawshank Redemption, Spinal Tap. I will watch any Wes Anderson film or Cohen Brothers flick, or anything weird and off beat.

music: Grew up on classic rock and punk, grew to love electronica and trip hop/electropop which is now my default genre though the spectrum is all over the place.

food: any carbs, veggies (I have been a vegetarian since 1996), mashed potatoes (I AM Irish), eggwhite omelets...NO mushrooms, lots of greens. :D

The six things I could never do without

1. My self respect 2. my family & Friends 3. Veggies 4. my laptop 5. iced tea or water 6. chemistry in a relationship

I spend a lot of time thinking about

pretty things, ugly things, The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran, how i've become an interesting mix of my free loving hippie mother and grounded practical father, snuggling, possibly getting a tattoo (I have a real attraction to Suicide Girl punks but I look like the girl next door and don't even have my ears pierced), good porn, vegetarian cuisine, how to help those around me who were brought into my life for a reason, how to become a better version of myself.

On a typical Friday night I am

At the movies, At home with a movie relaxing with a home cooked meal and hopefully another body to snuggle with, Taking weekend trips, Traveling up to NYC or Philly or New Hope or Princeton, cuddling with my cats who are very important in my life so if you are allergic you should stock up on Benadryl.

I don't drink or smoke, i'm no goodie two shoes either, but I am not attracted to smokers of ANY kind. (not ALL hippies like myself are into the devil's lettuce)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a real fetish for men with beards...not like Charles Manson or rapist beards, I think there is just a laid back mentality to a man with some scruff and maybe some longer hair. (I think it's my hippie roots deep in my heart)

I also LOVE Roller Derby.

You should message me if

You want funtastic tet-e-tete and can appreciate a woman with curves in all the right places.

If you have manners and tact and intelligence...and don't expect me to cam with you and watch you beat off. I'm involved the virtual fetish industry as a creative outlet, I adore talking about sex and love and art and life, but I am not your virtual whore. I've still got some morals even if I've got a very open mind.

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