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35 Washington, DC Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
What I’m doing with my life
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I've collected a lot of stories involving road trip calamities. But, to my great luck, a heroic good samaritan has generally surfaced mid-calamity, and so here I am to tell the tales at dinner parties.

I'm a big fan of small(er) cities, and love to sit on the porch in the evening with a drink. I'm lucky enough to have a job I really love. I tend to wake up happy.

I find brunch to be a contrived and slightly depressing custom. I'd just as soon drink mimosas while painting a barn. On a related note: I love helping friends run errands.

When I was a kid and visited my stepdad at his office I couldn't believe that he spent the entire day "chatting and tapping". Where was the work?! The jig was up. I started calling him at the office and saying, "Hey, how's the chatting going? Tough day of tapping?"

Well here I am, 25 years later, and I do a lot of chatting and tapping. In work, in life.

Sometimes I tap about the historical events of 1919. Other times I tap about arts budgets. I'm pretty sure that I'm interested in chatting about your family.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not taking pictures of myself or saving photos that other people take of me.

Being earnest.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Red hair, very blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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If you loved any of the below books, we'll have plenty to talk about.

I'm not trying to pretentiously signify that I *only* read. But I do really like to read, and if I were on a train and I saw a good-looking guy sitting there reading any of these books, I'd sit down next to him. So, yes, it's a better indicator than most.

The Moviegoer, The Things They Carried, Yesterday's Weather, The Good Soldier, The Heart is a Lonely Hunter, All the King's Men, Waiting, A Long Long Way, The Beauty and the Sorrow: An Intimate History of WW1, Lost in the Cosmos, Regeneration, Canada, Let Us Now Praise Famous Men, A Testament of Youth, any and all Springsteen lyrics
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why & what & how we read; the memorialization processes that took place after WW1; how the digital universe is affecting our sweet, frazzled brains; whether I will ever again eat anything so delicious as that chicken w/ chopped peppers at the place in Chengdu
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This whole thing is utterly bizarre. I am extremely skeptical.