Not sure what I mean? A place focused on tests and questions and a neat matching algorithm, with an unusually high percentage of the userbase being geeky and/or otherwise weird in a good way, many of whom caring little to nothing about that dating part but largely being open to potential Internet friendships with people far and wide.
[March 2014: Wow, things going from bad to worse here! All right people, still poking around partially out of habit and largely out of the lack of knowledge of a less shitty place, as stated above, but here's my site and here's my Facebook profile, just in case.]
Oh, if you're about to give me a high rating just to see if I was the one who gave you one, don't because it wasn't. And if you're about to give one for any other reason, again don't because it's just annoying to see that notification there if you won't let me know who you are anyway. Thanks.
Consider what you see below, with the exception of "you should message me if", as something like an abandoned unfinished building: Mostly still valid, but unusable for its intended purpose and unlikely to become usable in any foreseeable future.
I'm a great example of misery seeking company. If you're an optimist and/or believe in "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" and/or in "when life gives you lemons, make lemonade" and/or are the kind that picks up the pieces and moves on after personal tragedies, particularly those related to relationships, and/or are looking for someone who's any of these then spare yourself the trouble of reading further. If, however, you're willing to be a shoulder to cry on or at least someone to bitch with about how much the world and most people suck and either look for the same yourself or, quite the opposite, are in a relationship that now is great and also has a story that can give hope to people looking for second chances that seem absolutely impossible to get and/or are involved in meaningful social change in a direction I agree with and really want to share the details, we may have a lot to talk about.
(More details under "you should message me if".)
The first thing I need to say is that I really was mainly here for the tests (the quality of which has unfortunately been plummeting for years, so I haven't even taken any in a long time) and perhaps hoping to find a new friend or two. I mean it when I say my promises are forever, and I know the meaning of "forever"... The fact that she left in 2005 doesn't change how I feel and nothing ever will.
That said, my account became quite pointless after I noticed that she deleted hers. I liked the fact that she was still my top match from Romania even after all this time (also took it as confirming their algorithm), but as it is... Wiped that huge profile I used to have and I'll rewrite it if I'll ever feel up to it. (This paragraph has been here since 2008... Obviously also refers to the old algorithm, as after the changes it's almost meaningless.)
Still, if anyone wants to know things about me badly enough to read a 5000-word post, have a go at it. May as well use it since I spent all that time writing it...
I am idealistic, socially awkward, and stubborn