Not sure what I mean? A place focused on tests and questions and a neat matching algorithm, with an unusually high percentage of the userbase being geeky and/or otherwise weird in a good way, many of whom caring little to nothing about that dating part but largely being open to potential Internet friendships with people far and wide.
I'm still poking around partially out of habit and largely out of the lack of knowledge of a less shitty place, as stated above, but things keep going from bad to worse here, so here's my site and here's my Facebook profile, just in case. For those who are there as well, I can also be found poking KoTango with a few twigs.
Oh, if you're about to "like" me just to see if I was the one who "liked" you, don't because it wasn't. And if you're about to do that for any other reason, again don't because it's just annoying to see that notification there if you won't let me know who you are anyway. Thanks.
Misery seeking company. Offering and looking for a shoulder to cry on when it comes to personal matters and/or, on a more global level, someone to complain with about how rotten most people and this society they create and maintain are. Have nothing to do with incurable optimists, cheerful people, those who believe everything happens for a reason or those who advocate accepting things as they are, be it on a global or a personal level, or letting go and moving on. Needless to say, they also have nothing to do with me.
However, hope is desperately needed and yet always on a diet, so if you're in a relationship that has been rekindled and is currently great despite having ended, apparently for good and especially if purely out of your partner's choice, at some point in the past, please share. And, to add the global aspect after the personal, we may also have a lot to talk about if you're involved in meaningful social change in a direction I agree with. (More details on this last part under "you should message me if".)
The first thing I need to say is that I really was mainly here for the tests (the quality of which has unfortunately been plummeting for years, so I haven't even taken any in a long time) and perhaps hoping to find a new friend or two. I mean it when I say my promises are forever, and I know the meaning of "forever"... The fact that she left in 2005 doesn't change how I feel and nothing ever will. So, in case it's still not clear, that means I never have and never will see or use this as a "dating" site.
If anyone wants to know more about me badly enough to read a 5000-word post, have a go at it. May as well use it since I spent all that time writing it...
I am idealistic, socially awkward, and stubborn. (For those who don't know, these are the three adjectives each user needed to pick to describe themselves upon joining. Once the fields were removed, they were moved to the end of this section, and here I'll keep them.)