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Cavemonster

29 / M / straight / Single

Providence, Rhode Island

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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I am Intuitive, Logical, and Contradictory.

My Self-Summary

These are the things I'm happiest doing.
1) Building something (and it's turning out well in unexpected ways.)
2) Cooking and drinking wine with good music and good company.
3) Hopping from rock to rock in a stream in the woods.
4) Getting to the second chapter of a book that suddenly seems interesting.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm pursuing a career as a puppeteer.
It's about as hard as it sounds, but I'm dedicated and foolish enough to keep at it. Also I think I'm quiet good at it.

I’m really good at

In a recent job interview, I was asked to describe my performance style. I answered "Carnival Barker"

But I'm pretty meek and mellow most of the time.

The first things people usually notice about me

I look half asian, but I'm not.
I'm a little skinny.
There is paint on my clothes. (and likely holes too)
I never blink

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

It goes by the moment, but there are some that will always be up there.
-Synecdoche New York is easily the best film of the century (so far)
-I'm getting into Malcolm Gladwell, Outliers was great
-In Watermelon Sugar (anything by Brautigan)
-Pale Fire
-Everything Zadie Smith
-Most of Paul Auster (but he seems to have gotten a little sappy after 9/11)
-Good Comics (Sam Keith, Cerebus, Scott Pilgrim)
-New York Poppy Bagels (not a band, a foodstuff)
-Django Reinhardt
-Godel Escher Bach
-Annie Hall
-The Life Aquatic

I compare too many things to books and movies (and NPR stories)
I want a funny situation to remind me of a patch of lichen or something some wise old hobo once told me, you know, real things.

The six things I could never do without

You never know until you get there.
I think I could be an infinite number of different people if I lost the things that define me now. I'm not really afraid of that.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Cool projects I want to try (but will never have time for)
Media- Movies, books, TV (even) I think it fills the void left by retreating religious ritual of connecting us with people who are far away or long dead. In some ways it does it better.

Bullshit philosophy.

On a typical Friday night I am

I tend to work friday nights.
When you're self employed, the weekend has a lot less meaning.
Especially if ze techno clubs und ze bars are not your scene.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sleep with my eyes open

You should message me if

You're a lady who doesn't quite have it all together who'd like to hang out with a dude who doesn't quite have it all together.

But we're trying.