I’m confident but introverted, curious, kinky, playful, down to earth, a day dreamer, creative but not in a traditional way, fashionable, fitness focused, a dog lover, and happy. I love to learn - almost anything. I listen to a lot of TED talks and KUOW’s Speakers Forum just for the hell of it.

I am in an open marriage with the super amazing TigerfishBites.Currently I’m somewhere between poly and non-monogamous.

My sexual experience with women is limited but also kind of mind shattering. So I won’t lie – on the straight/gay scale I don’t know exactly where I stand. All I know is that I want a relationship with a woman. Preferably a more than just sexual one, although I’ll take me some amazing uncomplicated sex any day.

As for men, ya I like you too.

Chemistry is what’s most important. I care less about how much money you make or what bands you like etc. However generally I am attracted to intelligence, dominant men, feminine but strong women, confidence, people who take care of their bodies (I'm not talking six packs and 20 inch waists here just a love and respect for yourself), curiosity and creativity. Also kink, it doesn’t have to be the same as mine I just need someone who won’t judge me and who can understand and add to my world.

I am looking for someone who I can meet for coffee and just have an honest, interesting, down to earth conversation with who also likes to dance/drink/fuck/flog the night away.

My life right now is dedicated to self discovery and service. I spend a lot of time creating a healthy and happy home. I am a very domestically oriented person. I do a lot of cooking and concocting – kombucha, coconut kefir, etc. I focus on becoming a better person. I try to be honest with myself and either change or accept the parts of myself which are holding me back. Other than that I do normal stuff like play video games, watch TV, take long baths, read, paint my nails etc.

Cooking (either uber healthy or ridiculously unhealthy - nothing half assed), sprinting - wanna race?, being quiet, listening, drinking wine, playing with puppies, compromise, making lists, getting things done.

My hair probably, it’s usually something a little out of the ordinary. I get a lot of compliments on my shoes.

National Geographic Magazine, The Prophet, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Hemingway, Silverstein, Kundera, Hesse and all of the lonely planet travel books.

I like science fiction, documentaries (about almost anything), Kung fu movies (anything Bruce Lee). I don’t like horror, thrillers, or romantic comedies unless they are old.

Star Trek, Stargate, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, Twin Peaks, TED Talks.

The Tallest Man on Earth, almost any Mike Patton project, Beirut, Cave Singers, the Dutchess & the Duke, Hot Chip, John Lennon, Lovage, Mirah, the Mountain Goats, Nicolas Jaar, Nirvana, Of Montreal, Philip Glass, Skrillex and more. I don’t know why but I like to work out to reggae. I like to dance to Rihanna and other pop music. I also like random stuff like classical Indian music.

My kitchen is where I feel most comfortable. When I don’t know what to make I usually make Italian, it comes the most naturally. I love Asian flavors and use them often. I love to bake – tarts especially because you can put anything in a tart. I love soup.

1.Love
2. Sex
3. Time alone
4. NPR
5. Coffee
6. A sports bra

I'm a day dreamer. In a serious way. Most of it is kind of weird, usually not important but always entertaining.

Slaving over a meal for my friends, out drinking artisan cocktails, camping in the cascades - drinking wine from a platypus, or snuggling with my two dogs watching some kind of sci-fi or maybe a Kung Fu.

I consider myself a sexual deviant. I’ll try almost anything once, which usually leads to me wanting it more the once.

You truly think we would get along, either as friends or more. You are genuin and respectful, inteligent, sexy, confident, kinky, and want to meet me.