I am in two polyamorous relationships with the best guys around.
I am the kind of person who doesn’t value shallow relationships much. I have few friends and amours but I deeply love them all. So whereas the sexual part of a relationship can be casual the friendship cannot – for me. Chemistry is what’s most important. I don't care about how much money you make, what bands you like, or what your political views are (as long as you're willing to debate them!).
However I can make some generalizations: The sexiest organ is the brain, I like people who take care of their bodies – bonus points if you’re a climber or cyclist! I’m attracted to curiosity, creativity, and confidence. I need open honest communication and someone who won't hesitate to laugh from the belly.
Also - all of these photos are from within the last year (except the last which is almost 2). Yes I know my hair is different in almost everyone. See "the first things people usually notice about you" for further explanation.
I focus a lot on becoming a better person. I try to be honest with myself and either change or accept the parts of myself which are holding me back. Other than that I do normal stuff like hike, cook, rock climb, go to the dog park, socialize etc. I am a super fastidious person - if I'm stressed you'll find me vacuuming.
I like science fiction, documentaries (about almost anything), Kung fu movies (anything Bruce Lee). I don’t like horror, thrillers, or romantic comedies unless they are old.
Star Trek, Twin Peaks, TED Talks - This Anerican Life, Stuff You Missed in History, Radiolab, 99% invisible, The Moth, Snap Judgment, StarTalk - Planet Earth (or any good nature documentary really), 9 to 5, and anything Miyazaki!
The Tallest Man on Earth, Beirut, Lovage, the Mountain Goats, Nicolas Jaar, Philip Glass, Tune Yards, the Shins, Belle and Sebastian and more. I don’t know why but I like to work out to reggae. I like to dance to Rihanna and other pop music. I also like random stuff like classical Indian music.
My kitchen is where I feel most comfortable. When I don’t know what to make I usually make something Mediterannian inspired, it comes the most naturally. I hate baking generally but I love making tarts because you can put anything in a tart. I love soup.
3. My bicycle
4. Time alone