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My self-summary
Neuroqueer male-socialized Ashkenanzi-white human. They/them pronouns. Relationship anarchist. Polysexual. Kink-friendly. Enjoyer of digital (and other) media.

I value mutuality, transparency, honesty.

I am neurodivergent and have chronic illnesses/pain. Living with these multiple invisible disabilities, I manage to do a whole lot within my capacity.

I meditate, journal, and work on my own healing and growth in a regular way. Love finding ways to be clearer, kinder.
What I’m doing with my life
*NEW* Moving my body around at the Y a lot.

Settling into some amazing communities of people.

Supporting racial justice happenings.

Hanging out and holding mutual support space with the Western Mass Recovery Learning Community.

Fixing, carrying or banging on things.

Writing, dancing, and playing music. Maybe.
I’m really good at
Skipping down hills.

Observing sunsets.

Fixing things and solving puzzles.

Teaching a group of people about something.

Being tired and watching tv.


Turning children upside-down.

The first things people usually notice about me
Tall? White? Either gentle and friendly or socially awkward depending on whether I have recently run out of spoons?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Generally a big mythology/fantasy/sci-fi and justice nerd.

I read stuff about racism and healing mostly by POC and gender-noncomforming folks.

Octavia Bulter

Lots and lots of things. Dramas, superheroes, cartoons, anime, sci-fi... Favs are Avatar: The Last Airbender and Steven Universe.

creative folk, pop rock, dancable-but-not-too-repetative electronic music, and political hip-hop.

Restricted diet and am learning to love simplicity after being a creative cook for many years.

Complicated Board Games, Hearthstone, League of Legends, various RPGs, rougelikes, puzzlers, and indie thingies.
The six things I could never do without
Nourishing Food
Vibrant Green Places
Moving Water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The damage done by white supremacy.

How people make meaning around health, justice, community, and spirituality.

How to communicate kindly and clearly, which usually seems to involve relaxing, owning my own experience.

On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking. Lighting candles. Resting.
You should message me if
You actively oppose the capitalist imperalist ableist white supremacist cisheteropatriarchy.

You want someone to walk in the woods or meditate or play games with.

You think of yourself as some combination of some of the following: feminist, curious, liking to do things that involve moving bodies, liking to do things that involve sitting/laying down, actively engaged in change work, and oriented toward personal growth.