Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Passionate. Inquisitive. Hoping to die in more just communities
than the ones I was raised in.
Gender-questioning male-socialized human. Anti-oppression
organizer/support-person. Intentional. Mindful. Playful.
Non-monogamous. Kinky. Polysexual. Nerd.
I value mutuality, transparency, honesty.
I am a neutrovert/ambivert. I need to get out and I need a lot of
space to myself.
I think I am a weird one. I am neurodivergent and self-identify as
autistic. I am living with reoccuring fatigue, digestion issues,
and chronic pain, as well as a history of trauma. These invisible
disabilities are a significant part of my life, and at the same
time only one part of who I am.
I meditate, journal, and work on my own healing and growth in a
regular way. I try to cultivate kindest and clarity and becoming a
better support to my communities.
Grew up playing in a wetland ravine near my house, which taught me
to know and feel the land. Love being outdoors and finding magical
out of the way places to sit or wander about.
What I’m doing with my life
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Supporting a racial-justice happenings.
Hanging out and holding space with the Western Mass Recovery
Fixing, carrying or banging on things.
Writing, dancing, and playing music. Maybe.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Skipping down hills.
Fixing things and solving puzzles.
Teaching a group of people about something.
Being tired and watching tv.
Turning children upside-down.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall? White? Either gentle and friendly or socially awkward
depending on whether I just ran out of spoons?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Generally just a big mythology/fantasy/sci-fi and justice
I read stuff about racism and healing mostly by POC and
Lots and lots of things. Dramas, superheroes, cartoons, anime,
sci-fi... Favs are Avatar: The Last Airbender and Steven
creative folk, pop rock, dancable-but-not-too-repetative electronic
music, and political hip-hop.
Restricted diet and am learning to love simplicity after being a
creative cook for many years.
Hearthstone, League of Legends, various RPGs, rougelikes, puzzlers,
and indie thingies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Vibrant Green Places
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people make meaning around health, justice, community, and
How to communicate kindly and clearly, which usually seems to
involve relaxing, owning my own experience.
I do a lot of fantasizing about articles I'd like to write and
classes I'd like to teach.
For work I end up thinking a ton about mental health, wellness,
psychiatric oppression, and how to communicate with various people
about power and meaning and identity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately I'm overachieving and Friday is when my CSA comes in so I'm
probably finishing up a full day and enjoying looking at veggies I
can't cook because I don't actually have a stove yet in my new
You should message me if
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You want to disrupt the capitalist imperalist ableist white
supremacist cisheteropatriarchy with me.
You want someone to walk in the woods or meditate or play games
You identify as some combination of polya, feminist, nerdy, active,
outdoorsy, comfortable in your body, eager to dance, active in
social justice work, and committed to personal growth. Not
resonating with a couple of these could still make for a wonderful
connection in my experience.
I love to connect, especially one-on-one. My social schedule is
usually not as full as I'd like because maintaining it isn't one of
I've met several friends and allies on here. Feel free to be in
touch even if you don't think I might be the sexy kind of match for
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