Preference for dating people with an active interest in racial justice and struggling against other forms of oppression.
Cis-male. Trans-friendly Feminist. Anti-racist. Intentional. Mindful. Non-monogamous. Kinky. Pansexual. Anti-oppression advocate.
Interested in friendly and sincere connections. If they are hot, that's great too.
I find a lot of guys attractive and tend to relate better-than-average with queer people, although I have only wanted to hook up with other cis-men who I was already very close to.
Every intimate relationship, for me, is a unique set of circumstances, shared passions, and agreements. Right now I am in an ethical, and communicative non-monogamous relationship with somebody I met on here. We both date other people and she would be interested in meeting people I date more than once or twice.
I enjoy adventure and quiet equally. Too much of one or the other leaves me feeling seriously off-balance. I am a neutrovert! Learning new things is always exciting for me, whether it is out in the world or in the privacy of an intimate connection.
Gravitate toward deep personal dialogue. Also enjoy play and casualness. Especially when there's something to work on or DO together.
I am passionate about working with other open-hearted people to make the world a safer, healthier, and more nourishing place. Particularly interested in direct action and building alternative community structures.
I meditate, journal, and work on my own healing and growth in a regular way. I believe skillful embodiment of our best and kindest self is a disappearing art in our culture. I am curious about what tools for personal and social development are most helpful. How can we become our full selves, and learn to serve each other - and the greater ecology - more completely.
Grew up playing in marvelous wetland ravine near my house, which taught me to know and feel the land. Love being outdoors and finding magical out of the way places to sit or wander about. Sometimes this is deep in the woods, other times its just an odd strip of brush off a major road where something special abides.
Other people who truly passionate make me happy. If you are genuinely thrilled about anything I'd like to sit down and have tea with you. If you are also passionate about justice and transformation, then it's likely I will want to be your friend!
I am a weird one, noticeably outside the neurotypical range. Grew up an outsider and have spent much of my adult life exploring alternative activist, cooperative, and spiritual circles. I feel most at home when I'm held by a group of excellent leaders. I like to know that I'm serving others and be seen doing it.