Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I wear my heart on my sleeve. If I am available to you more often
than not, that doesn't mean that I don't have a lot going on, it
means getting to know you is important to me. If honest
communication about our feelings for each other freaks you out,
please move along. I want to meet someone who will believe me when
I tell you that I could get lost in the depth of your eyes, that
your asymmetrical smile/eyes/boobs turns me on, yes, those jeans
make your ass look incredibly hot, and watching you dress and primp
makes me want to stay home and jump your bones instead of going to
the movies. But I can hold out until after the date (if I'm wearing
boxers and you keep your hands to yourself). I easily express my
feelings and want to meet someone who expects openness and
I am looking for someone to go do things with, flirt with, hold
hands, neck in the parking lot, share and act out our most secret
fantasies. I'll also pull weeds in the garden, hike in the woods,
walk the beach, and even go shopping for clothes (so long as I get
to give you my opinion on lingerie as well as skirts and
I love holding hands on walks, playing footsies at a the
restaurant, and generally flirting in public. PDA? When I'm with
you, there is no one but you.
My proudest accomplishments are my two children. My married son and
his wife blessed me with a beautiful grand daughter, a adopted 13
year old, and another in the oven. He owns a successful and growing
business, which I have helped grow from two to five personnel in
less than three years. My younger daughter graduated Cal Poly SLO
with honors, BS in horticulture, and is now employed at the
National Botanical Gardens in D. C.
I like to go to the movies, comedy clubs, restaurants, the
occasional night club, spend the night on my yacht (especially when
mother nature deals a windy or stormy night), and have a favorite
local bar. I really want someone who will accompany me.
I'm very good with my hands and can fix just about anything,
including tight muscles.
I love a good puzzle, but I'm not into puzzling women.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to be an asset to humanity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Something broken? I can fix it. Need a massage? I'm very good with
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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SiFi, Robert Heinline is my favorite author. "Time Enough for
Love." Some of his work still gets published every now and then
even though he passed away in 1988. E. A. Poe is another of my
faves. I also read a lot of technical manuals and contracts.
One of my all time favorites is "Always" with Richard Dryfus and
Holly Hunter. Real tear jerker. "What Dreams May Come" with Robin
Williams (most definitely not a comedy) is a movie I loved so much
I bought a copy of it, but since have not been able to bring myself
to watch again. "Ghost" (Swayze, Demi Moore, and Woopie) was also
very moving and funny. Coen Brothers, Kevin Smith, Quentin
Terantino for fun.
Musically, pretty much the only thing I won't listen to is rap, I
don't enjoy extremely heavy metal or country, and don't often
listen to classical music. Right now I'm listening to Tull. Kate
Bush is my favorite female vocalist. My daughter and I share our
music; she keeps me up to date with the new stuff.
Food? The only things I won't eat are gummy things (worms, I mean
the gummy ones, not delicious crunchy meal worms) and jello with
fruit cocktail in it. Jello freaks me out. Eeew. Watched the
original "The Blob" movie at a young age. Go figure.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I would say a companion, but as badly as I wish for one, history
proves I can survive without (just not very happily).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My dreams (or nightmares). How lucky I am that I don't have a hairy
back. How fortunate I am to still be alive after beating cancer
nine years ago, and for the friends who helped me do it. Work. And
wondering why so many people think so highly of me, yet I am
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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You'd like to actually meet and are looking for a companion, not
just a friend or activity partner, and you don't mind having doors
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