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Cha-cha4u

35 M Rochester, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:32am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a wild man mixed with zen; a caged lion that just wants his belly rubbed and someone to listen to me pur while I doze off.

I got my tongue stuck to the railing once (thank God for moms and warm tap water) and can easily down a gallon of ice cream in one day if left unsupervised. I make no apologies for this, sorry to say.

I really enjoy walks on the beach, cooking with woks, reading in the tub, soaking in the sun, and foreign cars made in America. As stupid as that sounds. Moving on.

I like to jog when it's nice, I'm nicer when I jog, and after jogging my memory, I can't remember the last time I went...

I spend a lot of time thinking about thinking, talking about what was said, hearing people talk that I regretfully suspect do not listen, and tickling my taste buds with snickers and laffy taffy.

I often contemplate the meaning of life, and if there is meaning, what my life means. Whether or not there is a means to an end. If it's about the journey and not the destination, what is the point of arrival? And this, explains the male instinct to never ask for directions. When I started this rant it made perfect sense, though I'm not exactly sure how I got, here.

I really love watching movies the most, it's people watching at it's best. It's exciting when life is like a movie, however you would fair better to watch out for people that think they are actually IN, a movie.

I'm an old soul that grew up fast, acts immature, looks good for my age, and feels young as hell. It's really complicated actually.

I question everything, but rarely ask questions. If you ask me a question, don't question my answer. If I ask you a question, answer my question. If you answer my question with a question, that is how I know you don't, know the answer. Want to know more just ask :D
What I’m doing with my life
Writing/researching for my second book.

Writing screenplays.

Studying film making. Making a movie now.

I had a martial arts business in NH. Now I'm doing private lessons. Pretty specialized training. I conduct interviews with potentials before i take on new people. The course is an all encompassing study of mind/body.

I train MMA as well. Considering getting back into bodybuilding.
I’m really good at
Seeing into the heart of things.

Making people laugh inappropriately when they are carrying heavy objects or have a mouth full of food or beverage.

Cracking an egg with one hand while chewing gum.

Hugging myself, so that it looks like I'm kissing someone (could explain why I'm stuck on a dating site with the rest of you).

Talking so loud on the telephone that my landlord can eavesdrop on my telephone conversations (ass!). (I didn't just say ass.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books
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I have a library of books on virtually every topic as well as a few good novels and some literary classics. Have to say one of my favorite books is As You Think by James Allen. Basically, a timeless classic on purity of thought that likens the mind to a garden that must be cultivated and tended to. I know, sounds stupid. :D

Movies!? This is for fun...
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40 Days and 40 Nights...
Edgy, saucy, and a sparkling reflection of the pop-culture liberalism of progressive city life. Josh Hartnett delivers with co star Shannyn Sossamon in a story about two lovers trying to connect despite his 'stupid bet.'

Transformers...
An entire team of screen writers, director Michael Bay and various producers collaborated on this story. Character Samual Witwicky goes on the classic "heroes journey" in a visually stunning master piece with a powerful theme of sacrifice interwoven throughout the first two films.

Brothers...
Riveting emotional drama about a POW returning home from the war on terror and trying to adjust to family life despite his inner turmoil.

The Faculty...
Pop-culture retelling of the Puppet Masters and Invasion of the Body Snatchers, with an actual reference to this sci-fi story's literary and cinematic predecessors.

Good Will Hunting...
Written by Matt Damon and Ben Affleck. Truly amazing script with lean dialog. This is a story about a genius making peace with his past, all that he is, and most importantly what he is not.

Lord Of The Rings...
Peter Jackson's epic tale about the battle for middle earth with a most unlikely protagonist: the quintessential archetypal figure of innocence - the hobbit.

Zombie Land...
Funny, hip, and a wildly original twist on dealing with the post apocalyptic zombie scenario.

Charles St. Cloud...
Spellbinding story with a cleverly recycled, yet unexpected twist.

Ghost...
One of only three modern movies in the American Film Institute's top 20 romantic films. The other two are Moonstruck and Out of Africa (you always wanted to know that, admit it).

Music
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Anything that is good. Everything that is good. I take a dance class on Thursday nights.

Food
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What I really like and what I eat can vary haha. I try to eat healthy but I have a traitorous sweet tooth.
The six things I could never do without
movies
music
martial arts
munchies
mushin
alliteration...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How they can possibly get all the deer to cross at that yellow sign...
On a typical Friday night I am
Chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sometimes get the compulsion to speak in a British accent... it's called Anglo-lalia (and no, it's not like a weird disorder or something)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're awesome at dating.

You can moonwalk, pop lock, tap dance, pirouette, or waltz your way into my heart.

You believe that what is required of a man to have a clear conscience is a bad memory.

You are either chemically balanced or heavily medicated.

Or you moonlight as a costume hero cuz I want in. I'll be your sidekick I don't care.