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Chaiseeker

39 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Hinduism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently), Sanskrit (Okay), Tamil (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I consider myself to be a Free Spirit Wannabe, I am fairly open minded and specialize in bad (and sometimes terrible) jokes. If this was a much sought after genre in sit-down comedy, I'd be a millionaire. I actually felt like a millionaire in South East Asia - perspective I guess :)

I love to travel - been to 213 cities in 27 countries around 4 continents of the globe (and this list is growing) but barely scratched the surface of what this world has to offer. Will keep trying to scratch more :)

I love to laugh (at myself mostly, plus since my jokes are bad, I end up being my best fan) and lead a healthy active lifestyle. I love to travel and visit tea growing countries, work with tea farmers and help build communities. Last Summer, I came back from a rewarding trip to South East Asia (Burma, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia and Vietnam) where I taught yoga at a Kids camp specializing in children with childhood trauma - sounds intense but was super fun and extremely transforming. I will be going back again this summer to teach the same kids.

Of course I do love art, museums, theaters, concerts, fine dining with a nice glass of wine and all that normal stuff, but my soul belongs to nature.
What I’m doing with my life
Professionally - I can consider myself to be a successful business person and a social entrepreneur. Very lucky to have crossed continents and made it this far on my own and I am extremely grateful to all the wisdom gained en-route.I teach Yoga regularly and try to lead a healthy lifestyle.
I’m really good at
I sure can drink a lot of tea (you'd be amazed at how much tea I can drink), love to teach Yoga, volunteer and walk my adorable doggie. What I am not so good at is shaving my own head especially the back. Had some comically disastrous attempts with the razor that landed me right at a neighborhood hair salon.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile? Ok this is too cliche!

My Zen ability to bring calm to a riotous situation?

I look like a cross between Sugar Sammy and Russell Peters?

I really dont know!!! This is tough!

Hmm...I give up - you can tell me when we meet!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I usually tend to read 5 books at a time - I know its not sane but keeps my brain busy :)

Some memorable reads are:
The Alchemist, Born to Run, Game of Thrones, Lord of the Rings, A Fine Balance, The Dancing Wu Li Masters, The Kite Runner, Curious Incident of a dog in the night time, A Fine Balance, Long walk to freedom, Siddhartha, The Hero with a thousand faces, The Skeletal Crew, Four Past Midnight, My Life - Bill Clinton, The Tao of Physics, Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance, Way Finders, Guns Germs and Steel, Abraham Lincoln (Movie), Dark Knight (Movie), Godfather Series (Movies), American Horror Story (TV Show), Orange is the new black (TV Show), House of Cards (TV Show), Dexter (TV show), Breaking Bad (TV show), Walking Dead (TV Show)
Food:
Thai
Indian
Mexican
Japanese
Sri Lankan
Nepalese
The six things I could never do without
Yoga Mat
Underwear (most of the time)
Meditation ( notice how this sequence is getting interesting)
Spicy Food with Tea (did I just bundle two into one?)
Passport
Camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to pause a weekend, so we'll never have to wake up to a Monday again?
Why people in big cities like Toronto have a tough time connecting with strangers in public places like the TTC and grocery stores and book stores?
Why cant we just smile more often in our lives at each other and make each other's days?
Why some women post only group pictures on their profile turning it a into a 'find me' contest?
Why a lot of women think online dating is the same as the bar scene? Wake up ladies, this is an alcohol free zone :)
Why the pressure is still always on men to make the first move in a so called progressive world and why the first move is not always appreciated with a brief, courteous "Thank you" note?

Ok - this is getting a bit too intense, on a lighter note, I also think it would be cool if cats and dogs could talk back or if we could read their minds :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Definitely NOT hanging out in night clubs and waking up sore next morning - not that there's anything wrong with this (As Jerry Sienfeld would say)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My dream came true when I took a year off to travel around 4 countries in 9 months of volunteering and trying to make a difference to 36 orphaned kids around the world. Spending time with Monks in South East Asia
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Disclaimer: I am not your typical guy. So do not apply your previously bad online/ offline experiences to this profile. Also I am not here to pickup. Some men can also value chemistry and be decent, contrary to popular belief.

So here are some YOUness that I appreciate:
You must be willing to meet up in person. Sorry! while chat and messaging works as an initial icebreaker, it's just unreal to keep sending messages from Mars - I swear I am very much a human and not an Alien!
You can laugh easily especially at yourself
You have positive energy and like sharing it
You are open, laid back, low maintenance and drama free (drama looks better on Television or the big screen than in real life) :)
You do not judge easily and have a fair bit of patience (sigh! is this a tough ask?)
You are into Men only (disclaimer: I totally respect lifestyle choices and I'm just stating my preference)
Sexiness gets extra points, if you can pull it off wearing glasses - I will clean your floors ;)
My philosophy in life is "be present and the rest will follow" - Does this resonate even slightly? If yes, then you know what to do next :)