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ChaitIsOk

31 / M / Straight / Single

Atlanta, Georgia

His Details

Last Online
May 1
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Poorly), Afrikaans (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly), Cebuano (Poorly), Frisian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a huge music geek, I love going to shows and supporting artists...Other than that, Bars, Movies, Cardgames, Parks, Live Comedy, Museums, Local festivals, & just spending time with friends.

I hate talking about myself and I know I might come off a little strange on this thing but I'm such an attention whore at the same time. I get flaked out on by a lot of women I date and I really just want to be with someone special...provided you can put up with my odd lifestyle and not be flaky (seriously, I hate flaky girls, it drives me up the wall)

I'm extremely laid back (most of the time) and just enjoy a good companion, especially ones that like holding hands ...
What I’m doing with my life
Wellllll let's see. I'm revamping this because a lot has changed this year...

Right now I'm happier than I've ever been. I get a lot of work as a DJ for both clubs, bars, and private gigs. I'm playing bass in 2 bands (LaStrange Fantastic & Owner of the Sun). Also, I've been working at a fantastic BBQ restaurant in west midtown.

Currently between houses so I'm living at home but only for a couple more weeks (moving out mid-october).

My goal in the next 5 years is to start producing my own music and write a pop record...one that will afford me the opportunity to make a bunch of weird indie music...I would also like to keep improving my skills as a DJ...I'm fun now, but I think I can always get better.
I’m really good at
I used to be very modest about my DJ skills but lately I've been on a tear as far as crowd response and fun...I feel like if I don't sweat then I held back...

I'm also really good at having fun apparently. I've been in adventure mode lately...kinda willing to go see/do most anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm big, I have a huge head of hair, I can be funny if not trying...I did just lose 50 pounds and I'm working out again so heyyyyy

I look creepy, but I swear I'm not

I can also be pretty girly at times, I'm not wetting my pants while watching glee or anything...lets just say I'm addicted to pedicures.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Pretty much everything...I know when people say that its pretty much bullshit, but I really do...currently my favorites are (and in no particular order, in fact I'm just going to try and list as many in ten minutes as possible: Spoon, Arcade Fire, Broken Social Scene, Wilco, The Clash, Radiohead, The Pixies, Deerhunter, Best Coast, The Thermals, The New Pornographers, Okkervil River, Low, Love, The National, Feist, Bob Dylan, My Morning Jacket, Andrew Bird, Stars, The Pipettes, The Beatles, The Velvet Underground, Primal Scream, Spiritualized, Flaming Lips, The Roots, Swervedriver, Josh Rouse, TV On The Radio, Tortoise, John Vanderslice, The Jam, Ride, Lush, My Bloody Valentine, The Free Design, The Delgados, Jason Collett, The Wrens, Tom Waits, Talking Heads, Television, The Ramones, Johnny Cash, Gram Parsons, The Byrds, The Flying Burrito Brothers, Studio One Compilations, Sonic Youth, Slowdive, Broadcast, Neil Young, A Tribe Called Quest, Public Enemy, Common, XTC, The Ronettes, Os Mutantes, The Pogues, Lambchop, Mission Of Burma, The Go-Betweens, Fugazi, Bruce Springsteen, Sebadoh, Josh Rouse, Ornette Coleman, Afghan Whigs, Spacemen 3, Elvis Costello, Blondie, American Analog Set, The Hold Steady, Sufjan Stevens, Silkworm, Ride, Teenage Fanclub, Wire, Guided By Voices, Metric, Destroyer, Neko Case, Wolf Parade, Modest Mouse, Page France, Peter Bjorn & John, Amy Winehouse, Superdrag, Ted Leo, Super Furry Animals, Les Savy Fav, Jens Lekman...goddamn

Lately, I've been on a real disposable pop kick...as cheesy and poppy as possible...fucking LOVE Ke$ha...bored with Lady Gaga though.

Movies: High Fidelity, Spinal Tap, Anything Judd Apatow does, A Mighty Wind, the Jerk, The Commitments, Goodfellas, Clerks, 24 Hour Party People, Glengarry Glen Ross, Grosse Pointe Blank, Rushmore, Vacation, Snakes On A Plane, The Pink Panther movies, Hot Fuzz, Shawn of the Dead, Sideways, Defending Your Life, The Rutles

Books:anything David Sedaris, Anthony Bourdain, or Nick Hornby
Also: Please Kill Me, Rip It Up and Start Again, The Dirt (Motley Crue), The Slash Bio, Johnny Cash's Cash, What's Not To Love (Jonathan Ames), American Psycho,
The six things I could never do without
1) Music
2) Family
3) Friends
4) Pork
5) Pop Culture
6) Pungent Aromatics
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music, Women, Music, Women, Music, Sex, Food, Music, Women, Work, Music, Food, Movies, Music,
On a typical Friday night I am
Hitting a play button, getting the party going, getting crazy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not horribly vain, but I can be kinda girly. I like to hold hands, is that a crime? I hate being naked.

I have recently realized that I LOVE being the inside spoon. I've tried it with a couple of girls and they apparently get turned on too...its so fucking hot, I swear!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like music, bigger guys, bearded guys, someone to talk music with, and trying to figure out how to spoon at night without keeping each other awake. You don't mind your room smelling a little bit more like a coffee shop in amsterdam. You want a guy who doesn't mind an occasional chick flick or accompanying you while you go clothes shopping.

Also, seriously, I don't do the whole act like an asshole to get you to like me crap, its boring, its overdone, if I like you I'm going to be nice to you...simple...