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30 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 1
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am the worst.

"Unbearably, it's spring and I must confess that I've spent summers watching satellites thinking they were stars and who knows what it is you are."

I'm Canadian American, born in Canada. Lived on a boat as a kid, grew up in the country, been an urbanite since I went to university.

My twitter: @flolwoing
My soundcloud:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

I'm a production designer at a branding agency in SF. (READ: reformed artist/art student.)

I'm starting to write music seriously again.

I also moved to the Yay in part because I'd really like to give stand up a try.

Other than that: art; writing; video games; watching TV in this golden age of internet TV we have going. Trying to keep abreast of the sciences and current historical theory.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a dilletante as regards every goddamn thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sigh. My eyelashes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

For fiction, my favorites include Tom Robbins, Fred Exley, John Steinbeck, Anne Michaels, Chris Onstad, and Douglas Adams. Recently started reading my way through Bukowski's prose. Factotum was stellar, Post Office was less so. Also just finished The Sun Also Rises (finally, I know), which was far superior to the other Hemingway I'd read.

This past week was Delillo's 'Falling Man', which I thought was very good, if heavy. Also Coupland's 'Elenor Rigby' which was good; simultaneously light and very heavy.

Now I'm about half way through Flannery O'Connor's Complete Stories, and realizing I might actually not like her stuff much.

Favorite movies include A Fish Called Wanda, Wet Hot American Summer, The Fountain, Falling Down, Confessions of a Dangerous Mind, Dear Wendy, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, La Vita E Bella.

For (internet) TV, I'd say It's Always Sunny, Arrested Development, Community, The League, Parks and Rec, That Mitchell and Webb Look, The West Wing, Band of Brothers, Trailer Park Boys, Brass Eye. Maybe others? Oh yeah shit, Party Down. Oh and Archer! And Peepshow! Can't forget Louie; right in the feels.

As for music, I have a love/hate relationship with Coco Rosie; I have a love/love relationship with late-era Joanna Newsom; I should have seen Apparat and Squarepusher and Aesop Rock recently, but I failed to. Recent favorites include Susanne Sundfor, Flatbush ZOMBIES, Alt-J, Daughter, Autre Ne Veut and Dark Time Sunshine. Oh, and can't forget Baths. That guy is amazing. Perennials include The Interpreters, Boards of Canada, Bonobo and Aphex Twin.

I used to cook every night. I don't have time anymore with work the way it is, but I generally get around to cooking something Indian or continental a few times a week, maybe some Thai. I get my fucking stew on on Sunday afternoons. Also I live right by Le Cheval, so I partake in their amazing Bun Thit Nuong regularly.

NB- This section should get with the times and ask for favorite podcasts, such as: Jordan Jesse Go, My Brother My Brother and Me, Stop Podcasting Yourself, You Look Nice Today, Superego, In Our Time, A History of the World in 100 Objects, Material World, Comedy Bang Bang, Radiolab, Dan Carlin, Discovery, AND MOAR.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot. podcasts.
BBC podcasts.
Time to cook.
My friends and family.
My external harddrive.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My job. Twitter. History. Science. Prose. Making music.

Why on earth Will Shortz refuses to recognize the difference between an abbreviation and an acronym.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What's a "typical Friday night"?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I read The Time Traveller's Wife in one sitting.
You should message me if
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K I feel like I should make this section, at least, more precise.

I don't really see this site as a place to find fo real romance. HOWEVER I would love to meet one million Oakland friends, so what say you. Let's make that part happen.

PS - Y'all realize it's a fucking bummer that you like Ayn Rand, right?