First off it really frustrates me when sites require you to choose a gender and then give you only two choices m OR f. What about those of us who are neither or both. I was born intersexed which is the PC term for hermaphroditic i.e. I have boy parts and girl parts so one would think I would be a Bi persons dream. Not so much I have come to discover. now before you start thinking this is sour grapes let me say that I have not had to lead a celibate life. No not at all. I have been blessed with several marvelous lovers of all varieties of genders my education in the pleasures 2 and/or more human bodies can bring to and take from each other has been an extream one. In fact I am an Extreamist in oh so many ways. As a character in one of my favorite SciFi authors books was wont to say..."Everything in excess. To enjoy the flavor of life take BIG bites. Moderation is for monks." - From Time Enough For Love by Robert Hienlein.

Taking CERT (Civilian Emergency Responce Team) training

A lot of things. I'm a jack of all trades master of a couple. I have had a lemonade stand as a child, a newspaper route as a pre teen, delivered groceries in my early teens. Doring Jr. and Sr. high school I learned virtually all aspects of home construction and finishing from my adopted dad. I became a soldier fresh out of high school and a ranch hand when I got out. I have done telemarketing, been a gas station attendant, a farm hand and a welder.

Is that I'm a very gregarious redhead.

SciFi books, action movies, mimi-series shows, ALL music with so far only 1 exception. I cant stand Gangsta rap. I love ethnic food.

Air, water, food, love, freedom and sex. NOT necessarily in that order, and yes love and sex are two entirely different things.

What to do to be safe in a world gone mad.

Lately argueing with my current SO. She dosn't want to be poly. She has found the Seventh Day Adventists. So she also wants me to stop being poly and stop being Stephanie, or Steph as well as stopping all my kinky interests. I really don't know how long this relationship can last with her new religious bent.

As an intersexed individual at any given time you could see me appearing as a woman or a man or an Androgyne ( if you don't know what that is see google)

I'm looking for people who are hedonists at heart. Folks who take the phrase "If it feels good DO IT" seriously. Men and women with large sexual appatites and prefferably those with interest in unusual sexual practices.just looking to give and recieve pleasure in the most exotic ways possable for now. If as time goes on an emotional bond does develop then we will see. You find the fact that I have a chunk missing from my abdomen from my ribs to my groin, and from 1 to 2 inches deep due to necrotizing faciaitis dosen't turn you off or even perhaps it turns you on and gets you hard and or wet. Or you just find me an interesting person whom you just want to get to know better.