Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First off it really frustrates me when sites require you to choose
a gender and then give you only two choices m OR f. What about
those of us who are neither or both. I was born intersexed which is
the PC term for hermaphroditic i.e. I have boy parts and girl parts
so one would think I would be a Bi persons dream. Not so much I
have come to discover. now before you start thinking this is sour
grapes let me say that I have not had to lead a celibate life. No
not at all. I have been blessed with several marvelous lovers of
all varieties of genders my education in the pleasures 2 and/or
more human bodies can bring to and take from each other has been an
extream one. In fact I am an Extreamist in oh so many ways. As a
character in one of my favorite SciFi authors books was wont to
say..."Everything in excess. To enjoy the flavor of life take BIG
bites. Moderation is for monks." - From Time Enough For Love by
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking CERT (Civilian Emergency Responce Team) training
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of things. I'm a jack of all trades master of a couple. I
have had a lemonade stand as a child, a newspaper route as a pre
teen, delivered groceries in my early teens. Doring Jr. and Sr.
high school I learned virtually all aspects of home construction
and finishing from my adopted dad. I became a soldier fresh out of
high school and a ranch hand when I got out. I have done
telemarketing, been a gas station attendant, a farm hand and a
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is that I'm a very gregarious redhead.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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SciFi books, action movies, mimi-series shows, ALL music with so
far only 1 exception. I cant stand Gangsta rap. I love ethnic food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, food, love, freedom and sex. NOT necessarily in that
order, and yes love and sex are two entirely different things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do to be safe in a world gone mad.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately argueing with my current SO. She dosn't want to be poly. She
has found the Seventh Day Adventists. So she also wants me to stop
being poly and stop being Stephanie, or Steph as well as stopping
all my kinky interests. I really don't know how long this
relationship can last with her new religious bent.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As an intersexed individual at any given time you could see me
appearing as a woman or a man or an Androgyne ( if you don't know
what that is see google)
You should message me if
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I'm looking for people who are hedonists at heart. Folks who take
the phrase "If it feels good DO IT" seriously. Men and women with
large sexual appatites and prefferably those with interest in
unusual sexual practices.just looking to give and recieve pleasure
in the most exotic ways possable for now. If as time goes on an
emotional bond does develop then we will see. You find the fact
that I have a chunk missing from my abdomen from my ribs to my
groin, and from 1 to 2 inches deep due to necrotizing faciaitis
dosen't turn you off or even perhaps it turns you on and gets you
hard and or wet. Or you just find me an interesting person whom you
just want to get to know better.
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