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35 • London, UK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Yesterday – 11:59pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of space camp
- Rather not say
- Seeing Someone
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
-Ulysses, Alfred Lord Tennyson
It's about time for a change here, long overdue in fact.
My previous profile extolled my randomness and chaotic manner. I've changed a lot this past year, largely for the better, and so in turn should my representation to the dating community.
I'm a geek, a lover, a mentalist and often rather silly. I'm motivated in odd ways but primarily through the acquisition of joy.
I am madly, deeply, in love with my partner of some time, Yllacaspia.
Should you choose to meet me you'll find a genuinely compassionate, often confused, wonderfully smart longhair with a penchant for strangely configured beards and moustaches.
I like cycling, playing computer games, reading fiction, learning how to negotiate my way through working and social life, being surprised and causing surprise in others.
I like to help people where I can and often base what I do on how best to achieve that.
I prefer to meet in person than chat on OKC for extended periods of time. I have many internet friends and finding more isn't why I'm here.
Make yourself known. We're going to have a great time.
The rifters sequence, the complete Sherlock Holmes,The Praxis,Love All The People, Mr. Nice, American Gods, On,Salt,Trainspotting, The Vorkorsigan Saga, The Forever War, His Dark Materials trilogy, House of leaves, By the Sword, Star Fraction.
Robert Rankin, Iain (M.) Banks, Isaac Asimov, Arthur C. Clarke, Ken McLeod, Joe Haldeman
Movies, also including TV:
Heat, Blade Runner, Human Traffic, Labyrinth, REPO: The Genetic Opera, Bad Boys 2, Shaun of the dead, Hot Fuzz, LA confidential, Hancock, Battlestar Galactica, The Sting, Frost/Nixon,Sharpe,Children of Men,House
Portishead, Martin Stephenson, The Cure, Depeche Mode, Sisters of Mercy, Projekt Pitchfork, Vangelis, The Cult, Curve, VNV nation, Deathboy, Frank Turner, Orbital, Leftfield, PIL,Pink floyd,Nine Inch Nails,leftfield,Jordan Reyne,JoCo
Food: Italian and Chinese, My own
Ultimately the real reason you should message me is that you fancy a drink and want an interesting companion to go with it. I fucking love sitting in pubs putting the world to rights and if that sounds great to you we should probably do it together sometime.
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